? Now there are more and more idols, and every child has his own idol. But for our children, how can we guide idols to become the driving force for their growth? I think there are mainly the following aspects. ? First of all, let them establish a correct awareness of idol worship from an early age. We should tell them that they can be idolized, but we must be rational and don't put too much energy on them just because we like someone. Even invested a lot of money in it. Because they are still in the stage of not making money, it is actually a very irrational behavior to say that they have invested too much money for their favorite idols. They should be given a correct awareness of idolatry and consumption, so it is very important to educate them on the correct awareness of idolatry from an early age, which every parent must do. ? The second is to let them find the shining point in their idols. Take these bright spots as your goal or direction in the future, and take your idol as an example. In the later life, we should learn their advantages and benefits from ourselves and put them into practice, so as to form an excellent habit and become an excellent person. Finally, we can regard them as the navigation on the road of our ultimate goal. For example, in the process of children's learning, it is likely that there will be some fatigue or even weariness of learning. In these cases, parents can take idols as their goals, and in the process of struggle, they can come up with some of their own advantages to encourage their children. You can also ask your children to leave some photos of them in the textbook. Sometimes even looking at their photos is actually a great motivation for children. So this is also an effective way to improve children's academic performance.