Bernstein said: "Family culture determines a child's way of thinking, which in turn determines a child's language, thus affecting his academic performance at school.
"The family is an important place for moral education. The family is a school where children are supreme and classes are never closed. Parents are the first teachers who never leave their posts."
In the lecture of "Exquisite Coding and Student Training" by Professor Chu Jiangting of Beijing Normal University, Professor Chu took the family education of Liang Qichao, a traditional intellectual in China, as an example to explain the significance of exquisite cultural coding. All of Liang Qichao's nine children have strong patriotic enthusiasm, all of them have become talents, and three academicians have been produced. It can be said that the handsome man is full and passed down from generation to generation.
It turns out that the so-called "intensive compilation" is the intensive family culture provided by parents for their children. Professor Chu's exquisite cultural coding is a good cultural background and its transmission.
I knew something about Liang Qichao's family background before, but I didn't expect to have such a close relationship with their tutor. After listening to the examples taught by Professor Chu and connecting with the reality around us, I have to admit that the quality of cultural coding has a great influence on people's growth.
Xie Juezai, an educator in China, once quoted the ancients as saying, "If you live well, you won't smell its fragrance for a long time" and "If you live badly, you won't smell its fragrance for a long time". Although its original intention is to explain the way to choose friends, it is also very telling to use it to explain the influence of family environment on people.
Educator makarenko once said, "Don't think that education is just talking to your child, teach him a lesson and command him. You educate your children all the time, even if you are not there. How you dress, how you talk to others, how you talk about others, how you are happy or worried, how you treat friends or enemies, how you laugh, how you read newspapers-all these are of great significance to children. "
Practice has proved that the foundation and key of many children's success lies in excellent family education. "Meng Mu's Three Major Movements" and "Mother-in-law's Tattoo" all tell us that parents' literacy and family environment are closely related to people's lifelong education.
American Tyman Johnson believes that "a successful tutor makes a successful child, and a failed tutor makes a failed child". In this sense, family education is the foundation of all other education, and parents play a decisive role in children's growth. How to evaluate the importance of parents in children's education cannot be overemphasized.
Nowadays, many parents don't really realize their responsibilities as parents and the importance of scientific family education to their children's academic success.
Many parents think that their children's learning quality is the result of school education, so they try their best to find a good school for their children and even spend a lot of money to send their children to key schools. Few parents blame themselves for their children's academic failure and the origin of their children's bad habits.
In recent years, many experts have called on parents not to think that there is no need for teachers to educate their children, but to establish correct concepts and learn scientific educational methods in various ways.
This requires government functional departments to provide such learning places, so parents' schools and parent-child co-construction projects came into being.
It is also urgent to promote the establishment of "learning family", improve the level of family education, and actively build an educational system integrating family, school and society to lay the foundation for the healthy growth of students.
Of course, while creating exquisite family cultural codes, teachers should also provide students with exquisite cultural codes in their growth, so that they can grow up harmoniously and healthily in a subtle and excellent educational environment.
If we use exquisite codes to guide students, and society, schools and families form a transmission network of exquisite codes, students will certainly become available talents needed by the future society.