First of all, as parents, we have a natural sense of responsibility. Every road in life is for children to walk by themselves. Only when they make mistakes with scars will children remember their experiences and lessons. As parents, our empty experiences will not leave any impression on their minds. The only thing we can do is to teach children how to deal with and comfort when they make mistakes.

Secondly, as parents, we should learn to observe. Children are independent individuals. What we have to do is to help them realize their own direction in life, not the direction we have arranged, and help them tap their hobbies and potentials. The most important thing is to establish a principle and outlook on life in their hearts, that is, the bottom line of being a man, so that they will not cross some high-voltage lines of morality and law in the future. At the same time, we should learn to encourage children and establish their self-confidence.

Finally, the most important thing is to learn to communicate, which is the best way to solve the gap. Sometimes children don't actively communicate with their parents. We can talk to children while watching TV or having fun. At this time, the child's psychological defense line is the most fragile. We need to know what kind of attention and guidance our children lack from the conversation, so that they can be well integrated into the family and the triangular relationship can be stable (that is, equal to each other).

Parents' family around their children is incomplete and closed. Although seemingly happy, everyone is hiding something behind the scenes.