It is often said that children are replicas of their parents, and many words and deeds of parents will be reflected in children. Behind the word parenting is a family's educational methods and methods; When we say that a person has no education, we are also denying the children's family; Therefore, parents nowadays pay more and more attention to their children's upbringing, but in fact, companionship is the best education.
Psychological research shows that when a person becomes an example, he will subconsciously put away what he thinks is bad and show only the good ones to others. Children get along with their parents, and parents are their role models!
Children will imitate their parents' behaviors, words and solutions when facing things, even as small as a small gesture of their parents!
In the once popular program Metamorphosis, many city heroes began to rebel because of lack of parents' company. In fact, in children's minds, these rebellions just want to be accompanied by their parents.
On the road of children's growth, in fact, the best education is the companionship of parents.
Now many parents are busy with work during the day and have some social activities after work, but even so, they forget to give their children a bedtime greeting.
If parents can get home before their children have a rest, they can have a brief communication with their children before they go to bed, which can be some ordinary things. Ask children if there are any stories that impress them at school or in the environment they get along with. What children think is novel may be what they yearn for most.
Even if it is too late to communicate for a long time before going to bed, a short good night greeting before going to bed can not only promote communication between parents and children, but also understand children's thoughts and recent friends according to their stories.
With the growth of children, they have the space they want, so children slowly begin to have their own secrets and have the so-called "gap" with their parents. Therefore, it is very important to communicate with children occasionally.
Everyone knows that adolescent children will have more ideas. Faced with these unknown physiological and psychological changes, children sometimes can't grasp this cognitive scale. As parents, they need to guide their children at these critical moments based on some key guidance and suggestions.
Sometimes, different people will behave differently in front of different problem children, and they will behave differently in front of their parents, not to mention teachers or others. Parents should also reflect the details of possible problems in their children's speech in time through their children's expressions, and find out in time that chatting with their children early can avoid some situations!