Recently, the post-90s generation became a father and mother. With the changes of the times, parents have different ways to educate their children. The post-80s and post-90s are unique in educating children.

I met a mother before, and she was very strict with her children. She arranges full cram schools and full extra-long classes every day, so that children can live a full life every day.

Everyone has always been critical of this phenomenon and thinks that children should enjoy their childhood, so once they see a parent who is particularly strict with their children, their first reaction is to have an aversion to this parent. Therefore, most parents born in 1980s and 1990s believe in Buddhism, and they will grow up with their children.

But after seeing the child's growth achievements, I suddenly understood that following fate does not mean doing nothing. I remember what I often say when I go home is to let nature take its course. In fact, this kind of letting nature take its course is to wait for fate after we do our best, rather than doing nothing and waiting for the day to speak.

The efforts of mother chicken blood

A very simple example can tell you how much a mother who has beaten chicken blood has gone too far. In fact, I really appreciate my mother, which makes people love and hate each other. Compared with them, you feel that you are not a qualified mother.

When I got up at 8 o'clock in the morning and felt that I had got up very early, I found that Jixue's mother had sent her children to do morning exercises, and then she was going to send them to the Olympic math class. We looked at the children and couldn't recognize the figures in the second grade. We also had an Olympic math class and smiled, then went home and went back to sleep.

Maybe at this moment, we will feel guilty. Why do others work so hard and do nothing, but after a while, we will comfort ourselves and let nature take its course.

In the process of children's cram school, we found that these mothers were always with their children, and he remembered what the teacher said and worked harder than the children, while lying on the sofa watching Taobao and listening to Tik Tok.

In fact, we can't deny that we have a job, but mother chicken blood also has a job. Their efforts for their children are just more diligent than ours. They send their children to English classes, dance classes and so on.

It's not that we don't have the opportunity and ability to let our children learn these things, just because we think we can not go, just because we think we can be lazy, just because we have many excuses and then choose to give up.

Chicken blood mother's result

Then, when we basked in the circle of friends, we suddenly found that we could only bask in the children's play. Then we were shocked when we saw these disgusting chicken blood mothers basking in their children's academic achievements and holding so many awards and trophies.

Are these really not what we envy? That's not the answer. Everyone is envious and wants their children to be the best among their peers, but their parents' laziness makes them even lazier.

When many parents comfort themselves, they all say why they can't accept their children. Ordinary is obviously a very happy thing. There are so many ways for people to choose from in the world. Why just let their children study hard? We will feel that these chicken blood mothers have not given their children a good entertainment space, and have not taken their children to play and enjoy the world.

The truth of chicken blood mother

But do we really know these mothers? We always feel that their children are miserable and their daily life is full of changes. In a word, their lives are full, and they let their children run in the fields every day. They don't know what to do. Why can't they arrange a music class for their children, let them enjoy music, let them study and let them not study?

We wasted a lot of time, but we blamed these mothers for pushing their children too hard. This is actually a wrong idea.

Finally, we found that these children who study very well not only have strong learning ability, but also have many talents. They all have good personalities and are very responsible.

As for our children, although we have given them a lot of time to play by themselves and enjoy life, they will not enjoy life, and they have never played many things.

All in all, in life, everyone wants to be lazier, everyone wants to live more comfortably, and no one knows how comfortable it is not to work hard, but we must let our children get out of the comfort zone, learn to grow and become excellent.

We can accept that children are ordinary, but we can't accept that children are poor. No child is born stupid and no child is born poor, so we let children work hard because we want them to choose their future life.