1. Help and encourage your baby

Many babies dawdle because of their personality, so it is unrealistic to change the habit of dawdling from the root.

But mom and dad must insist on helping and encouraging the baby, don't laugh at the baby's dullness, but give him the greatest praise for every progress.

2. Don't rush for success

Mom and dad can't rush things. Children who are slow to do things, don't just say that they will change. Getting rid of a bad habit and developing a good habit is not something that can be done overnight. Only through repeated and repeated practice can it be achieved.

Therefore, first, parents should have patience and self-confidence and believe that their children are no worse than others; Second, give children more opportunities to practice, but treat them differently according to different situations, and don't rush into it; Third, according to the child's performance, give appropriate evaluation; Fourth, we should persevere, and pay attention to doing well at the same time.

3. Stimulate children's interest

Mom and dad try to observe what children are interested in and try to stimulate their enthusiasm for doing things with what children like.

For example, you promise your child to watch TV for ten minutes after finishing his homework, or you promise your child to go to the playground and so on. Children's bad habit of dawdling can be cured as long as they pay attention to observation and have full patience.

4. Change the way of pursuing perfection in the past.

Mom and dad must change the way they used to pursue perfection. "There is no perfect gold, and no one is perfect." Try to turn blame into encouragement.

For example, if a child knocks over a cup while drinking milk, his mother can ask him from another angle: "What should you do if you knock over a cow's milk?" It may be easy to arouse children's interest in solving problems when they are in opposition. If they just blame, they will be at a loss.

Adhere to principles

Mom and dad should first review themselves, whether they take care of their children too carefully and arrange everything for them. As a result, children can't take care of things that need to be handled independently, rely on adults everywhere, and wait for adults to help them, so they like to muddle along.

If the baby is found to have such a tendency, mom and dad must pay attention to adhering to the principle. It's the baby's business that must be done by him. Don't let him develop opportunistic psychology.

For example, the child was supposed to pick up toys by himself, but the child lingered there waiting for his mother to pick them up. As a result, my mother couldn't stand it, scolded him a few words, but still helped him clean up. This will not have any educational effect. Because it is important for parents to stick to principles.

lead by example

Change yourself first, then consider changing the baby. Or have a family competition to see who moves fast.

7. Set a time and give appropriate pressure.

Children dawdle on homework, set time and alarm clock to remind them. Give your child a time to finish according to the amount of homework. It's time. Don't do it again. Are you waiting for the teacher to criticize you after you finish writing?

You can divide the time into three or four segments and set the alarm clock separately. Every once in a while, the alarm clock will remind your child: how long has it passed and how long is it? If you don't hurry, I'm afraid it will be too late. With this kind of pressure, children will become very fast after several times.

8. The task is moderate and there is free time.

Children want to play as soon as they finish the task, but many parents ask them to do other exercises next, so that they can't see the dawn of play, so the children come up with the trick of dawdling.

The task is moderate, ensuring that the child will accelerate. More incentives, less urging. Positive incentives, such as: "Hurry up, it will be better." "If you hurry up during the exam, you may have more time to check." Positive children will consciously remind themselves to hurry up next time.