The university stage is a critical period for the development of young people's lives. As a young group with high cultural level in China, they are rational, sensitive, passionate, creative and challenging. However, in the face of the rapidly changing society, increasingly fierce competition and problems from study, employment, economy and emotion, they are often at a loss.
In addition, various physiological factors, psychological factors and social factors are intertwined, which easily leads to the unbalanced psychological development of college students. Specific performance in the following aspects:
Not adapted to the university environment. ?
After entering the university, I found many students with excellent grades. Their sense of superiority as excellent high school students has disappeared, and the huge psychological gap makes some students unable to adapt. Ideologically, college students often can't clear up the gap between their dreams and reality. Before entering university, students are often instilled with a one-sided concept that everything will be fine and life will be worry-free.
In life, college students have to solve all the problems in life by themselves. How to establish good interpersonal relationships with classmates and roommates is a big problem for college students, especially freshmen. In learning, the change of learning style also puzzles some college students. ?
Can't stand the great pressure of job hunting and employment.
The two-way choice of employment makes college students face great employment pressure. This is especially obvious among senior three students. Many college students failed to find suitable jobs before or after graduation, and their psychological problems appeared.
Love and sexual psychological problems. ?
This is also a common psychological distress of college students, which generally includes unrequited love, frustration in love, the relationship between love and study, and revenge after emotional breakdown. With the maturity of physical and sexual psychology, college students pay more attention to sex, and psychological confusion and obstacles often appear in physical development, gender relations, love and so on.
Self-positioning confusion.
College students' psychology gradually matures, and they begin to actively think about life, constantly reflect on themselves, explore themselves, and experience various contradictions and puzzles between inner self-evaluation and cognition. Think about what to study for, what to do in the future, what kind of life you want, and so on. It makes college students' psychology fluctuate greatly. Without timely guidance, it is easy to induce psychological barriers.