Because I pay special attention to family education, and because I know that the author of this book, Mr. Wang Jinzhan, is a professor of Chinese Academy of Sciences, a famous education expert and a national excellent teacher.

He once created the miracle of bringing a class of 49 students, 37 of whom were admitted to Tsinghua Peking University, and 10 was admitted to world famous schools such as Cambridge and Oxford, so I bought this book without hesitation.

In the process of reading this book, the biggest inspiration for me is that from the teacher's point of view, family education has different gains.

How much influence do parents have on their children?

/kloc-Newman, a great British educator in the 0/9th century, said this:

In other words, a child's mind will be influenced by his parents in the family all his life.

Whether parents can give their children love and light up their growth path is related to their life.

In his letter to his mother, Mr. Yuan Longping once said that it was his mother who had the deepest influence on him.

It was his mother who taught him English and made him read the most advanced scientific literature in the world. It was his mother's persistence and encouragement that made him get a systematic education. As a mother, he had a lifelong mission to fight for it at an early age.

Mother, like a bright lamp, has been pulling Mr. Yuan Longping forward, defying difficulties and devoting her life to her dream.

In the book, Teacher Wang Jinzhan talks about her daughter being bullied by her classmates.

Once, my daughter came home and told her mother that her classmates bullied her.

It stands to reason that a mother should pay attention to this kind of thing and comfort her daughter, but she blames her daughter for being timid and says that her daughter will not find a way.

So the daughter never told her mother again and began to look for her father. But dad is so busy that he often doesn't even see him all day.

Later, until her daughter grew up, she still felt pain and wanted to cry when she talked about the bullying she suffered as a child.

Mr Wang Jinzhan himself felt regret and remorse. When the child is in trouble and needs help, he completely ignores it.

Because he has personally experienced and experienced that kind of pain, he pays special attention to the psychology of every child he teaches, and often instructs parents how to care for and help their children and be a "grass to solve their worries" in their difficulties.

Really, not all parents can be "gas stations" on their children's growth path.

On the contrary, as long as parents don't "discourage" their children, it is already very good.

A distant cousin Xin Tong told me a story about her husband when he was a child:

Xin Tong's husband likes reading since childhood, and his academic performance is very good. But in the fifth grade, Xin Tong's husband's parents told his son that his family was too poor and had no money to let him study.

No matter how reluctant the son is, parents are determined not to read it. Finally, Xin Tong's husband dropped out of school before graduating from primary school.

How old is the child? He has only been studying for a few years. It was irresponsible of his parents to treat him like that.

Children's growth, especially at a young age, depends almost 100% on their parents.

Children can't grow up well without the love and care of their parents.

I really hope that every parent can become a "gas station" on the road of children's growth and be a "pump" for children, instead of destroying them.

Remember, talented people are made by families. Similarly, the same is true of the waste of talents.

Only when parents do the right thing can children become talents.

The book "Family Makes Talents" embodies the essence of Wang Jinzhan's educational thought for more than 30 years, which are problems that parents often encounter in family education.

The difference is that the solution given by Wang Jinzhan surprised everyone.

Humor is amiable and dignified. Usually you don't do it. Once you do it, you can solve the problem, and then you can make your children more admired and awed.

What is there to hesitate about a book written by such a good teacher? Just buy it.

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