A short story about family education: Where is the groundhog? Three hounds chased a groundhog, and the groundhog got into a tree hole. There was only one exit from the tree hole, but a short time later, a white rabbit emerged from the tree hole. The rabbit ran forward quickly, with three hounds beside him. The rabbit was in a hurry. Hey? I climbed another big tree. The rabbit lost its footing in the tree and suddenly fell down, causing all three hounds to look up. The rabbit took the opportunity to escape.
After the story is finished, the teacher will ask the students: What's wrong with this story?
Students may say:
? Rabbits can't climb trees. ?
? A rabbit can't stun three hounds at once. ?
The teacher didn't say anything until the students couldn't find the question. However, there is still one question you haven't mentioned. Where's the groundhog?
When the students are thinking, the teacher leads to the topic of educating the students: the goal pursued by the groundhog and the hunting dog, but because of the appearance of the rabbit, the hunting dog changed the goal, our thinking was unconsciously damaged, and the groundhog disappeared in our mind.
? In the process of pursuing the goal of life, we are sometimes fascinated by the scenery, sometimes interrupted by trivial matters, sometimes distracted by trivial matters, give up halfway, lose our way, or go the wrong way, thus achieving our original goal.
? Students, the road of life is very long. There are both the temptation of exotic flowers and plants and the obstacles of mountains. You must always remind yourself where the groundhog is and don't forget your original goal in life. ?
One night, when a group of nomads were preparing to camp and rest, they were suddenly shrouded in a dazzling light. They know that God will appear soon, so they are eagerly waiting for God's will.
God appeared and began to speak: you should pick up more pebbles along the way and put them in your saddle bag. Tomorrow night, you will be happy, but you will also be sorry. ?
Say that finish, god disappeared. The herdsmen were very disappointed because they had expected that God would bring them endless wealth, health and longevity, but they didn't expect God to let them do this meaningless thing. However, in any case, this is God's will. Although they were somewhat dissatisfied, each of them picked up some pebbles and put them on their saddles.
In this way, they walked for another day. When night fell and they started camping, they suddenly found that every pebble they put into the saddle bag yesterday had turned into a diamond. They were very happy, but also regretted not picking up more pebbles.
A short story about family education: An eagle and an eagle in dung beetles chased a rabbit and wanted to eat it. When the rabbit saw that he was desperate and helpless, he suddenly saw a dung beetles. The rabbit begged the dung beetle to help him and save him. The dung beetle promised to help him and protect him.
At this time, the eagle has caught up with him. The dung beetle said to him? Please don't hurt the rabbit, because it is my servant. ? However, the dung beetle looks so small that the eagle doesn't take it seriously at all. The eagle strangled the rabbit and ate it with relish in front of dung beetles.
Dung beetles will never forget this humiliation. He is waiting for the eagle to build its nest. Soon, when he found the eagle's nest and saw the eagle put the egg in it, he quietly flew in and pushed the eagle's egg to the edge of Ying Chao, causing it to fall to the ground and break into pieces.
This eagle is full of sadness and anger. He flew to the sky and came to the throne of the gods, asking them to provide him with a safe place to nest and hatch eggs. God said:? When you hatch eggs again, you can put them in my arms to hatch. Because you are my bird, I should take good care of you. ?
So, things just happened.
However, when the dung beetle learned the truth, it immediately made a dung egg, then took it to the sky, came to the gods and threw it into its arms. The god found this dirty thing and wanted to shake it off, but forgot that there was an eagle egg in his arms; So I shook them off with the dung eggs. As a result, the eagle's eggs were all broken again.
A short story about family education Part IV: Looking at America? Cold? On a weekend in July this year, when I was eating in a Chinese restaurant in Houston, USA, I saw an amazing scene: a middle-aged foreign couple sat at the next table with two children, a seven-or eight-year-old daughter and a three-or four-year-old son. The youngest son pointed to the colorful pictures on the menu and wanted to eat Dandan Noodles and Sichuan. Mom said, this is spicy noodles, you can't eat it. But the youngest son had to. Mom couldn't persuade him, so he had to order. Dandan Noodles served it, and the little guy took a bite and stopped eating it right away. He wants to change a bowl of noodles that are not spicy.
But trouble came, and my mother shook her head seriously. Don't! You must finish it, this is your insistence, and you must be responsible for your choice! ? My son turned his eyes to his father for help, but I'm afraid he only cared about himself and said nothing about his son's help. The poor child had to finish the noodles with runny nose and tears.
I whispered to my friend who had dinner with me. How can this woman be so cruel and force such a small child to eat such spicy noodles? The friend whispered: This is how Americans discipline their children, and let them learn to be responsible for their choices from an early age. It is estimated that when ordering food in the future, what his mother will say is: Do you still want to try the taste of China spicy noodles? This little guy dare not stick to his own opinion. ?
After the little guy finished the bowl of spicy noodles, his mother rewarded him with an ice cream and praised him? Good boy? , the little guy immediately beamed. I can't help wondering, okay? American hot mom? Admire, admire.
This kind of American education with clear rewards and punishments is unique. My English teacher Allen likes telling us stories about her grandson Oliver very much. Oliver is naughty and often makes earth-shattering moves at home. The worst time, his mother asked him to bring mashed potatoes to his sister. He secretly put mustard in his sister's mashed potatoes, and the baby took a bite and cried. Mother didn't scold Oliver when she found out, but took down the chicken leg he was eating and handed it to her? Mustard mashed potatoes? , ordered him to eat.
Oliver knew he was wrong, so he apologized quickly. Mom is not soft-hearted: only after eating will you know what's wrong! ? It's no use begging for mercy, Oliver can only obey. From then on, he never dared to play tricks on his sister again. Because he knows that once he is caught, he will bear the consequences.
Last month, Miles, the son of a good friend, broke his leg. My husband and I went to visit him. Miles is a senior. He will graduate from college next year and prepare to apply for medical school. Medicine is a very important subject in America. Luxury? It costs more than $200,000 to complete at least 8 years of undergraduate and 4 years of medical doctor.
Miles's parents are very much in favor of his son's study of medicine, but only if he borrows money to pay his tuition and repays his loan after work. If it is other families, this is not surprising. But the Myers family runs more than a dozen chain restaurants in the local area, not bad money!
In order to borrow less money, Miles went to the forest area to help people cut down trees during the summer vacation. But he only worked for half a month and earned more than 2000 yuan, and then he was injured by a piece of wood. Seeing that his son was injured, Miles' father not only didn't feel guilty, but also said sarcastically, 10 yuan's hourly wage is too low. You have to earn 15 yuan. Now, I'll give you 8 yuan's hourly wage. Can you do it? I can do this job sitting anyway. ? I can only sigh: Is there such a thing as falling when someone is down? Cold? Parents?
In China, we often see such a scene: Grandparents hunched over their backs, carrying heavy schoolbags for their grandchildren, and sending black children to and from school. What kind of love do children need most? Maybe it belongs to American parents? Cold education law? It is not suitable for children in every country, but one thing is certain: growing up in the cold is better than blooming in the greenhouse to meet the challenges of life.