"Parents should assume the main responsibility of family education for minors and educate minors to develop good thoughts, conduct and habits with correct thoughts, methods and behaviors." The Promotion Law clarifies the irreplaceable role of parents in children's growth. Educator Suhomlinski has long recognized this. When he talked about "who is educating children and what is educating children", he mentioned the role of six forces in children's growth. He said: "The first strength comes from family, followed by teachers, collectives, myself, books and street friends." Suhomlinski put the influence of family education on children in the first place among many educational forces, which shows the importance of family education.
However, due to various reasons, family education has not attracted enough attention. Every time there is a parent-teacher conference in our school, many parents are absent. They seem to give a good reason-I'm so busy at work, how can I have time to attend the parent-teacher conference? There is another sentence, they didn't say: Is it your school and teachers' business to educate children? What do we do? ! He doesn't know that the root of children's problems is often at home. I have taught students for more than 20 years and met all kinds of children with problems. Tracing back to the source, I found that most of their problems can be found in the family.
Therefore, no matter how busy and important the work is, remember that there is still an important and complicated job waiting for you at home, and that is educating people. Obama has a famous saying: I can't be president all my life, but I want to be a father all my life.
Parents' education for their children is nothing more than words and deeds. Parents' words and deeds, every move, are role models for children, which will exert a subtle influence on children. Some educators even say that education is just an example. Parents should set a good example for their children everywhere, and do what they are asked to do first, instead of just asking their children by authority. For example, if we ask our children to get up early and not sleep late, do we have to go to bed early and get up early again? For another example, if you ask your child to keep reading before going to bed, but you lie on the sofa and brush your mobile phone, what will your child think? When children are reading, parents had better sit down quietly and read with them. One is demonstration, and the other is companionship. Liu Yang, a space hero, said with deep affection: "Now that I think about it, I still remember the scene of a family of three sitting together quietly reading a book. Parents are role models for children. What kind of people we want our children to be, then what kind of people we will strive to be. "
Children's habits, qualities and accomplishments are mostly developed in the family, which is the result of parents' education. If the whole family is at home and no one is around, turn up the TV, speakers or mobile phones very loudly, regardless of other people's feelings. A child grew up in such an environment and didn't know how to take care of others' feelings in public. Such families often fail to raise a well-educated child.
The scientist king is a model of excellent parents. He once participated in the formulation of the Family Education Promotion Law as a special guest, and we were deeply impressed by his successful education for his daughter. Of course, our ordinary parents can't have his knowledge and wisdom, but his companionship and care for his daughter deserve every parent's deep thought. There is a reason for Excellence, and excellent parents stand behind excellent children.
Education expert Dani said: "In the sense of family education, children's future is to fight for their parents." Family children's first school, parents are children's first teachers, let's take family education as our lifelong career.