After watching a work, what did you learn from this viewing? At this time, it is very necessary to write a review! So can it really be written? The following is my review of the lectures on family education in primary and secondary schools (6 lectures in total). Welcome to reading. I hope you will like them.
Parents' feedback on the lectures on family education in primary and secondary schools 1 Today, I was lucky enough to watch the lectures on family education in Wang Kun, which really benefited me a lot. With the theme of "Five Forces for Children to Go from Excellence to Excellence", the lecture shared with parents how to educate their children scientifically and correctly. As the child's first teacher, parents' words and deeds are influencing the child, and family education plays a vital role in the child's life. So for parents, parenting and education are equally important.
So, as parents, how should we educate our children scientifically and correctly? Let me share with you some feelings after watching the lecture.
First of all, I learned from The Power of Awakening and The Power of Discovery that we should know children correctly. Every child is unique. Love is not to fill a basket, but to light a child's heart. To awaken children, it is necessary to cultivate children's "six views": to awaken children's health view and cultivate their vigorous vitality; Awaken children's outlook on life and let them have dreams and ambitions; Awaken children's wealth view, children who don't know money have no future; Awaken children's values and let them know how to behave; Awaken children's love concept and let them know the bottom line, ethics and principles; Wake up children's world outlook and let them experience the world more. Parents should not criticize their children blindly, but should discover their talents and advantages, help them display their talents and advantages, and accompany and understand them.
Secondly, I realize the importance of parents setting an example from the "power of example". Parents should create a good family learning atmosphere, create a positive communication atmosphere, keep their word, and be punctual and trustworthy. Parents should teach their children how to respect, the rules of being a man, the rules of doing things, and the rules of social morality. Parents are arrogant, children are arrogant, parents are modest, children are humble, parents are immoral, and children are unqualified. Husband and wife should be harmonious, loving and filial to their elders.
Then, I learned from The Power of Love that the most important reason for children to lose their temper is that they don't feel love. Many parents will say that they love their children very much, so how to love their children correctly? We should love our children completely, and children should be advantages in parents' hearts. Let children feel their parents' love with tolerance and encouragement, be a loving child, love themselves, parents, teachers, classmates, schools and society, and children will naturally be sunny and cheerful.
Finally, I learned from the "power of faith" that parents should trust their children. Children are what parents type in. Encouragement can turn an idiot into a genius, and criticism can turn a genius into an idiot. If you scold a child, he will not love you, but he will not love himself. Never attack, criticize and abuse your children. No matter what your children do, they are not as good as others. He or she is also your unique child, so you must trust, encourage and support your child.
Parents who love their children should fulfill their educational responsibilities. Let's practice family education together and teach children to know self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance and self-reliance.
1On the afternoon of October 28th, the conference room in Mingde Building of Experimental Primary School, which can accommodate 300 to 400 people, was packed. Parents were lucky enough to be invited by the school to listen to the lecture "Being a Parents Who Really Love Children" by Zhang Zhigang, a national psychological counselor, trainer and family education tutor. Parents listened attentively, interacted actively and took notes carefully, which benefited a lot.
In the lecture, Mr. Zhang conveyed the experience of family education to parents with humorous and grounded language and real parent-child communication cases. In the relaxed and happy atmosphere of two hours, I have the following insights:
1. Parents' growth is more important than their children's study.
Children are the hope of every family, so we pay more attention to children, their achievements and their daily life. It is precisely because of excessive attention that many unconscious problems are caused, and our good intentions often fail to achieve the expected results. After listening to teacher Zhang's lecture, I was enlightened. In fact, children are far better than we thought. We neglect our own growth and study, causing a certain degree of anxiety.
2. It is more important to pay attention to children's mental health and setbacks.
In daily life, pay attention to setting a good family style and example. What kind of person do you want your children to be? Do it yourself first. Be good at learning, understand the law of children's development and infiltrate positive energy. Family harmony is the guarantee of children's healthy growth. Love yourself, love your family, maintain the positive image of your spouse in front of your children, create a harmonious and happy family atmosphere, and make your children feel safe and happy. Educate children about setbacks, put an end to overindulgence, and teach them not to hurt themselves, the environment or others under any circumstances. Let children know that mistakes will be punished.
3. Learn to truly love children.
Because I know that I am merciful! There are no parents who don't love their children, but are we doing this right? We should do the same things with our children at the same time, in the same space, and really have company. Change your own ideas, get rid of anxiety habits, change language patterns, and strive to cultivate children with interesting minds, good health and exploratory spirit, rather than obedient children.
Parents listened to the lecture for just two hours with relish, and I was deeply impressed by many experiences. To borrow teacher Zhang Zhigang's words, "It is a virtue to make yourself happy, and it is a merit to make others happy!" Let's start from loving ourselves and being happy, be a parent who is willing to learn and grow, change ourselves from now on, improve the family environment and care for the healthy growth of children!
Parents' feedback on the lecture on family education in primary and secondary schools 3 With the bursts of applause in the conference room of the experimental primary school, I know that this lecture has benefited all parents present. Of course, I also feel that I have gained a lot. I am honored to attend teacher Zhang's lecture as the parent of Class Five and Class Three. It has long been known that Mr. Zhang enjoys a high reputation in society, and it is only through personal experience that he knows that he really deserves his reputation. Next, I will talk about my experience from the following points!
Parents give different opinions on whether to hit children. Some people think that if you make a mistake, you should fight, while others think you shouldn't. Under the step-by-step analysis of teacher Zhang's reasoning with facts, I understand that hitting children is also necessary: first, hit if you are not angry; Second, we must keep the surrounding environment unified; Third, communicate with children in time after the fight, so that children know that mistakes have to bear the consequences. I deeply know how badly I used to discipline my children. I always feel that the child is my own, and I can fight if I want to. I am a parent, and my children should obey unconditionally. Finally, the child is afraid, not the child realizes his mistake. I also know that children should respond positively, and response represents concern for children, instead of ignoring him if you want to ignore him, and not responding if you are not interested, which will hurt children.
It is every parent's long-cherished wish to give their children the best love for themselves, but many times our love has become extreme love and a shackle on their growth path. When children don't like to eat green vegetables, I will yell at them, "You should supplement vitamins, and your skin will turn white after eating green vegetables." Through teacher Zhang's explanation, I know that children aged 0-6 should eat more crude fiber food. Children can promote brain development by chewing, so don't worry too much about partial eclipse. We all want our children to be filial when they grow up. Teacher Zhang told us that "filial piety" is an idea that we should instill in our children. He explained what "filial piety" is through his own personal experience. The essence of "filial piety" is to make parents unable to accept any psychological burden. We should try our best to reassure them!
"Because you know, you are compassionate." Nowadays, children generally have great learning pressure and heavy tasks. Parents also try their best to urge their children to study. Parents look at their children's homework and seem to be concerned about their children's study. Don't they know that children are very resistant to this kind of behavior? We just need to make a study plan for their children. The child's heart is pure and beautiful. Try to say more beautiful and kind words in front of your children, and don't bring negative information from your heart to your children. Among family members, we should pass on everyone's love for children to their children. In the teacher's place, the teacher's love and selflessness should be passed on to the children. "Companionship is the longest confession" is not that we take our children out for a day, but that they are playing with their mobile phones. It doesn't mean that our parents are lying in the hospital bed, sitting in front of them for a while, and leaving when something happens is companionship. True companionship is "doing the same thing at the same time and place". It is necessary to understand the needs of children and their voices in order to bring the most suitable love to children.
"Change in an instant, success in an instant." Looking back, I feel so ashamed of my children. When children are disobedient, they always criticize him with offensive language. Today, I realized that it was not a criticism, but an injury. Aggressive language does not bring abundant energy and enthusiasm to children, but negative destruction. For example, "If you don't practice this question a few times, you will be stupid", so why not reverse the order and replace it with "You are not stupid, but you have to practice this question several times", "Nothing can compare with others, who is as useless as you" and why not replace it with "No one can be like you! You don't have to compare everything with others. " The same set of numbers will definitely bring two completely different effects to children. Good children are boastful. We should let children know that they are the best and unique in the world, and let them have the motivation to study and live.
The pressure will be even greater after "returning the injured right to the child". It is not that a child can sit back and relax by mastering a skill. We should give them a healthy growth system, give them a frustrated heart, and let them know how to challenge themselves in a difficult environment, face difficulties, and gain a foothold in society with a positive and sunny attitude.
It is a virtue to make yourself happy, and it is also a virtue to make others happy. We still have a lot to learn. I only hope that we are all positive parents, and we will never fall behind in the growth of our parents!
Parents' feedback on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools 4. Thanks to the school for building a platform and providing valuable learning opportunities for parents. After listening to the expert lecture, I really benefited a lot
Family education is the most important education. Family is a child's first school, and parents are a child's first teacher. Family environment is an important cornerstone of children's growth. As parents, we should strive to create a warm, comfortable, inclusive and loving family environment, so that children can grow up healthily physically and mentally. Try to do:
1, more company, more understanding of children. The companionship of parents is the spiritual food and warm harbor for children's growth. Accompaniment can reduce children's anxiety, eliminate loneliness and enjoy the time with us. Understanding will promote communication and make children feel warm and happy.
2. Communicate more and preach less. Good communication contributes to the harmony of parent-child relationship and is the guarantee of children's physical and mental health. Learn to listen to children and communicate with them more, so that children can feel the respect and care of their parents.
3. Make rules to manage mobile phones and reading materials. Children should have a sense of rules from an early age. Especially mobile phones and unhealthy reading materials will affect children's physical and mental health. Making rules will promote the development of children's good behavior habits, not infatuation, not crossing the line, and form positive and healthy psychological characteristics.
4. Face the pressure with children. The child is a living individual and will encounter a lot of pressure. As parents, we should not ignore or blame, we should face with our children and teach them not to complain or escape in the face of pressure. Learn to ask for help when necessary. Only parents' acceptance and help can protect children to the greatest extent and improve their psychological resilience.
May we become better parents through study. May our study make us better children!
Parents' feedback on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools 5. After watching this video, I gained a lot. The most important point is the importance of family education.
In addition to children's study at school, family is also an important place for growth, which plays an irreplaceable and unparalleled role.
Children's puberty is between the ages of eleven or twelve and seventeen or eighteen. During this period, children are easily controlled by emotional brains. Children in this era have less room to vent. In our time, entertainment was going out with friends to pick something to eat, but going home was faced with cold electronic products. They are lonely and lack playmates. They are lost because the rare weekend is either in cram school or on the way to cram school. They are confused because they only know how to study and don't know where their sense of value lies.
Therefore, family education played a vital role during this period. We can use the cohesion of the family to make children feel the happiness and warmth of the family. Teach children how to solve difficulties in the face of pressure through preaching; Use the power of family environment to help children develop perseverance and will not be easily overwhelmed by pressure.
With regard to how to protect the family environment, the current family problems are family indifference, family violence and great changes at home. The third point is that the average family will not be satisfied. The first point is the family's indifference, parents' indifference to their children, letting them grow up in a free-range way, making them look free, but no one cares and is indifferent to their grades. The second point is violent conflict. Too much care for children by parents often backfires. Disagreement leads to conflict. In my opinion, the best way is to communicate more and preach less. Communication is two-way. Both sides can confide their feelings without reservation like intimate friends, while preaching is a unilateral lesson for parents. Children have long known what to know when they grow up, and they are tired of talking too much.
Family education and family environment are what every parent should protect.
Parents' feedback 6 Every child is a treasure in parents' mind. We all look forward to their safe, healthy and happy growth. I have been studying, exploring and reflecting on children's education, hoping to grow, temper and mature with children. Parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first schools. Parents' manners, moral quality and family harmony are very important for children. Every time I see a child's bright smiling face and hear a child's immature voice, all my troubles and hardships are thrown outside the cloud nine.
First, pay attention to moral education and make children become popular people.
Personal character is the basis of all moral behaviors. Educating children to talk about morality should start from themselves and around them, so that they can respect their elders, love others and not bully the weak. Children should appreciate what they do right and criticize what they do wrong, so as to establish a correct view of right and wrong. Kindness, courtesy, civilization, right and wrong, and empathy should be mastered from an early age.
For example, children are a little aggressive when they are very young, like to hit people and often make other children cry. Children with strong personalities often do this. I think we must find a cure for him. One day when I came home from work, my mother came to complain that my son hit her child yesterday and stained her child's clothes. When I got home, I patiently squatted down and asked him, "Every child is the treasure of mom and dad, isn't it?" I believe he will say "yes" because I usually emphasize this point to him. He really said, "Yes." I continued: "if you are beaten by others, your parents will be very distressed and sad!" " But in the same way, you hit another child, and her parents are very distressed and sad, because she is also her parents' little baby! "At this time, he has unconsciously bowed his head and began to know that his behavior will make others sad. From then on, all the children in our area are willing to play and laugh with him, and occasionally a little conflict will soon be reconciled.
Second, cultivate independence and assertiveness, and exercise children's ability.
Children can't live under the wings of their parents all their lives. If parents want to be better than the next generation, they should let their children learn from the master. As parents, we should respect children's choices, give them the right to choose, and don't judge children by their own choices.
For example, the color of children's own clothes, when to read, draw, play and play the electronic piano several times, watch cartoons for a long time and play games for a long time, as long as they are within a reasonable range, are all decided by themselves. When children are with me, they will arrange things in an orderly way and sometimes point out my shortcomings. Maybe as parents, we should learn to be smart, learn to show weakness and give opportunities to our children. Only through repeated practice and thinking can children grow up, become independent and surpass their parents.
Third, urge children to develop good living habits, behavior habits and study habits.
Children are the embodiment of parents, and parents are their role models. Therefore, what we ask our children to do must be done by themselves first. Example is more important than words. Moreover, habits are not formed overnight. To help children persevere, persevere, and gradually develop habits. Tell him what's important and what's not. For doctors, time is life; For businessmen, time is money; For you, time is knowledge and growth. If you make good use of your time, you may thrive, but if you waste your time, you may be weak and dry. But work and rest are combined. When it's time to study, study hard. When it is time to play, you should have fun. You should have a timetable in mind. The ultimate goal of education is not to score, but to enable children to create a happy life and enjoy it.
For example, get up in the morning, wash your face, brush your teeth, fold the quilt, organize and manage your own things, and remember where to put your used things. After watching an animated film or movie, discuss with your child what educational significance or what experiences and feelings you have. When adults discuss problems, you can also express your own views and opinions. You can also point out what you think is wrong or bad for adults.
Fourth, praise and encourage more to cultivate children's self-confidence.
There is a famous educational saying: "Let every child walk with his head held high." A child's self-confidence stems from his parents' love for him. Don't be stingy with the words "I love you" and don't be shy to express them. If you love your children, your partner, your parents, you should say it. Not only that, but we should also fully trust and respect him, tap more of his advantages, scold less and tolerate more, but don't indulge; Less comparison, more encouragement; Less arrangement, more guidance; Less discouraged and more grateful. Maybe children will face life with a smile.
For example, for a while, it often rained, so I said, "It always rains, and I'm so annoyed." Unexpectedly, my son said, "I have the happiest family in the world, and it doesn't affect my mood if it rains every day."
Fifth, strengthen safety awareness education so that children can grow up healthily and safely.
There are hidden dangers everywhere in modern society, so we should cultivate children's own safety awareness during their growth. Only the happiness of children can bring happiness to families. Children should be taught to know all kinds of safety signs, traffic signs, food signs and other signs. I am also very grateful to the school for cultivating children's safety awareness in an appropriate way at an appropriate time, and teaching them some ways to seek safety and survival in dangerous times according to different growth stages and different environments.
These are some of my own important thoughts and experiences. There will be all kinds of problems in the process of children's growth, which require our parents to calmly face, rationally analyze and put forward the most suitable solutions for children.
Here, I want to thank the teachers for their hard work, their guidance and tireless teaching. Let's work together to cultivate a better next generation for our motherland.
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