On the issue of criticizing children, we should neither turn a blind eye to children's problems, nor cling to children and criticize them repeatedly, but look for the "degree" of criticism. Not only criticized the children, but also made them feel depressed and give up on themselves. On the issue of persuasion education for children, persuasion education is neither possible nor possible. Not beating and cursing all day, not talking all the time, but finding the right "degree". Clean and tidy, icing on the cake, bald Xuan Jing.
On the other hand, in addition, most parents do not pay attention to their children's growth and main performance, and leave it entirely to colleges and universities to manage methods and teaching, feeling that there must be no problem with what they teach. These two kinds of parenting education are not easy to benefit children's development, and the parent-child relationship is not good, so it is impossible to accurately grasp the boundaries of parent-child communication. "Helicopter parents" feel that they have the right to make decisions and manipulate everything. Because he/she regards the child as his/her own assets/spare parts, and does not think that the child is an independent individual, but the child is born by himself/herself. A child is like a seedling. In order to grow healthily and happily, gardeners must water, fertilize and plant weeds. Otherwise, it is likely to die or grow into a tree in crookneck.
Children's appearance is a mirror of parents, and children's problems often project parents' problems. Therefore, before making rules for their children, parents can reflect on themselves: Have I guaranteed their children's needs? Does my usual behavior set a good example for my children?
Pay attention to shaping children's habits and make the harm of tutoring last longer. In parenting education, there is another thing that parents can't let go of, and that is to shape their children's habits. As the saying goes, habit determines temperament and character determines life. The cultivation of expression, reading articles and fitness habits will do great harm to the development trend of children's life.
Although the children are still young, these people have a particularly strong ability to learn by themselves and imitate their works. If parents do not guide and educate their children correctly at this time, they will let their children "derail". Such children will not be measured in the process of doing things, which is very unfavorable to the long-term development trend of children.
Excellent language skills and habits play an important role in children's interpersonal communication and getting along. Some children speak impulsively, and their intonation is harsh, which makes people feel uncomfortable, because they have not cultivated the habit of speaking at ordinary times. Parents should minimize cold violence at home in their daily lives, pay attention to the tone and manner in the process of criticizing their children, and don't have to "draw conclusions" or "label" for no reason.