As the saying goes, "dragons give birth to dragons and phoenixes, and mice's children can make holes", or "fish begins to stink at the head". What kind of person do you want your children to be? What kind of person do you want to be first? I have always believed that this statement is true. The influence of parents on their children is passed down from generation to generation. What can be done to have such influence?

First, the husband is good to his wife.

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Although our parents-in-law are over 60 years old, they are still very loving. They usually take care of our two children and give them to us at weekends. My father-in-law likes to buy cheongsam for her mother-in-law when she goes shopping alone. All kinds of things all year round, as long as you meet a cheongsam shop when you are shopping, you will go in and have a look.

On my mother-in-law's birthday, my father-in-law will buy gifts in advance and is willing to spend money on her mother-in-law. According to my husband, my mother-in-law likes jewelry, but she didn't have much money at home when she was a child. I can't bear to spend the ten thousand dollars I have saved for a long time, but my father-in-law took it out and bought a gold necklace for my mother-in-law! This love has been cut.

Once my father-in-law went back to his hometown to do business for a while, and they actually made a sweet phone call for more than an hour every day, every day! Really, we young people can't do it.

My husband, who grew up in such an environment, never gave gifts on various festivals and anniversaries every year. He never refuses to go shopping with me. If he comes home a little late at night, he will definitely report it in advance, because his wife feels secure.

Second, there should be a sense of ritual in life.

"You should pay attention to your life. Any festival will look like a festival." This is what my parents-in-law often say, which is a bit difficult for a daughter-in-law who grew up in a less fastidious family, because I really don't know how to prepare, but I have heard a lot of husbands have a lot of experience in this environment, such as how to have a full moon in the Mid-Autumn Festival and how to spend their wedding anniversary. Life is not rough at all.

Once on my birthday, I happened to meet my husband on a business trip, and he wouldn't be able to come back for a while. He really sent a big bunch of roses and a big box of chocolates! I also sent a long paragraph of warm-hearted love words, which made my face red and made my daughter laugh at me! I heard that children from families with a sense of ceremony are particularly sensible. My family Dabao likes to record the sense of ceremony in his diary to express his warm feelings for his family. I especially like this self-evident way of education.

Third, let children participate in the daily behavior of parents.

Although the child is young, he is very sensible. My daughter often says, "Don't think I'm a three-year-old child." I really think parents can learn how to be children.

Tell children to be polite and civilized.

In the past, I took my older children out and met my uncle or grandfather at the door. I would take the initiative to smile at them and say, Hello, they would also smile back: Take my children out to play. Now, when I take my two children out and see the doorman's uncle, both children will take the initiative to say: Hello, uncle.

Every time I take my children downstairs for a stroll, I will say thank you when someone opens the door or gives way to me. Once I met an uncle who wanted to get out of the way. Before I could speak, the child had already said, thank you.