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Some time ago, a news that a mother was slapped by her son and called the police entered the audience's field of vision. The mother said that her son said rude words and hit her. The policeman asked the child if he had any regrets. This wonderful father actually said that this is a domestic matter and does not need the police to solve it. The father said that the child's uncivilized behavior is a trivial matter, and I don't know what is a big deal in his father's view.

There is a saying in China: It is better to be poor and rich than to be educated. Educating children is the most important thing.

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After winning the Nobel Prize, Mo Yan, a writer, told eight little things he experienced with his mother. Through these things, his mother taught him great love and affection, tolerance and understanding, pity and sympathy, honesty and shame, firmness and unyielding, life and things, learning and life, dreams and ambitions. Under the guidance of his mother, he grew up to be a very cultured person.

There are many educated people in all walks of life. We all know the names of some people, such as old opera bones and singers. They all have good conduct and are deeply loved by everyone. Some people, whose names we don't know, are just ordinary people. They may not have a vigorous story, but they can also show excellent qualities such as selfless dedication and people-oriented from the little things in life.

"Invisible Education" wrote that the so-called education, simply put, means that you have chosen to be a better person regardless of your background and background.

We should tell our children that we should try to be an educated person under any circumstances!

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Some people in Zhihu say that not all "educated" people have "education", and education is a virtue accumulated in life practice from the inside out. I'm impressed.

Wu's mother tried to cultivate him into the high flyers of Peking University while killing her. He should have made a good contribution to the society, but he didn't expect to kill his mother because her mother couldn't meet his requirements, which made people shudder.

A few days ago, it was revealed that the female passengers who beat the driver on the train and the male passengers who robbed the seats were called to the public security organs for education or detention. If you don't educate your child, society will educate him for you one day.

Be sure to let the children know that "don't do it with small goodness, don't do it with small evils", and strive to be a person who has light in his eyes and is dedicated to good!

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Douban Some people say that education is the moral cultivation reflected in the way of behavior, and it is the result of social influence, family education, school education and personal cultivation, especially the code of conduct and ethics developed from childhood in the family. As parents, we all want to cultivate educated and polite children, but how to educate children well is a headache for many parents, which can be considered from the following three aspects:

1. Select environment

We have all heard the story of Meng Mu's Three Steps. Meng Mu moved twice and changed three environments for her children. Finally, he settled his home next to the school and chose a good environment for his children.

Although we are familiar with the story, many parents can't do it, such as swearing and fighting. In this environment, it is easy for children to learn badly. On the contrary, if parents can bring positive energy to their children in work, study, life and friends, I believe that children will work hard.

establish/make rules

This book of Zeng Guofan's family instructions records the 36 words he left to future generations, namely: ambition, regularity, professionalism, familiarity, abundance, quietness, lightness, leisure, looseness, brightness, reality, hardness, frugality, emphasis, sincerity, diligence, prudence, loyalty, benevolence, sincerity, respect, forgiveness, harmony, modesty and respect. Every word is a rule, which shows that Zeng Guofan has good intentions.

There are countless examples of this. As the saying goes, "Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang". If we want to make our children better, we must tell them what to do. Only when children know what to do and how to do it can they do better and better according to this benchmark.

3. Correct in time

Lenin broke his aunt's vase when he was eight years old. Because of fear, like other children, he said he didn't break it. Although his mother saw that he was lying, she didn't expose him, so she stopped telling him honest and trustworthy stories. Three months later, Lenin finally got up the courage to tell her the truth and wrote a letter to his aunt to apologize. Lenin's moral integrity when he grew up was highly respected by many people, which was inseparable from his mother's education.

Two days ago, it was reported that Xiong Haizi broke the jade on the counter by dancing. Xiong Haizi didn't mean it, but it also shows that his parents are usually lax in discipline. Parents should take this opportunity to tell their children etiquette, tell him to be polite when going to other people's homes, let him know where he is wrong, and don't make the same mistake again. If his parents just beat him up, it will not only solve the problem, but also make him feel less important than others' jade, and the consequences will be more serious.

It's not terrible for children to make a little mistake. As long as his parents correct him in time, he will "learn from his mistakes" and correct his mistakes, and gradually he will get better and better and grow into a noble person.

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In Saint Amethyst, upbringing refers to the rules that people should learn from an early age and the respectful attitude when getting along with others.

Liang said that education is rooted in inner cultivation and inheritance, consciously without reminding, freedom is based on constraints and kindness is for others.

Only by following the rules and being educated can a person become a better person and make contributions to society. Otherwise, no matter how highly educated and knowledgeable he is, he is a scum and a cancer of society.

May we all be educated people and cultivate educated next generation!

Encourage with you!