As a parent of a first-year student, I think it is well-intentioned for the school to carry out this activity outside the busy teaching when the children just enter school, and it has provided a lot of valuable experience for our parents. During the period when children are just in school, only when families and schools work together to promote development can we create a better and more brilliant tomorrow for children. Now let me talk about my feelings after listening to the class. First, the cooperation between home and school can effectively cultivate children.
Today's children are all only children, and all the families are adults. So the family environment she came into contact with is actually an adult environment, and the school learning environment is very different from the family environment. In the middle, parents and teachers played a bridge role. Only when parents and teachers fully communicate, discuss children's education together and reach a consensus can we help children grow up in all directions. Parents can't rely entirely on teachers, but should cooperate with teachers to complete the education of their children.
Second, cultivate good habits and benefit for life.
Habit is the mindset of people, and it is a subtle force. As the wise man said: success is a habit, and failure is also a habit. Parents and school teachers all say, "Let children form good habits, it is better to let them get rid of bad habits." From the day I finished my class, I tried to carry out family education under the guidance of this concept according to the actual situation of my family. Start with children's writing habits, homework habits and living habits, and cultivate children to form good habits from some casual things.
Third, parents should keep a normal mind and treat their children correctly.
As the saying goes, "children are their own good", most parents think that their children are geniuses, everything is good, and they can't bear any grievances. Criticism of teachers can sometimes not be treated correctly. In fact, the teacher's criticism of children shows that teachers attach importance to children. If our parents and teachers agree, it will be more conducive to children to correct their shortcomings; On the other hand, we should also see the advantages of children, even if they have made small progress, we should also give them affirmation to build their self-confidence. At the same time, we should dilute the concept of achievement and pay attention to the cultivation of children's comprehensive quality and learning ability in all aspects.
Fourth, understand and respect children's choices, trust children and get along with them on an equal footing.
Every child is an independent individual, just like you can't find two identical leaves. There are absolutely no two identical children in the world. Therefore, I think parents should analyze the pros and cons from her point of view. As long as it is reasonable, they should generally agree. At the same time, it can also help to cultivate children's self-confidence and autonomy, and also make children trust you more.
How to write about parents' school experience
Since the beginning of school, the school has held four lectures on parents' learning. Every time, my parents and I listen to the teacher carefully. First of all, thank the school for providing a rare learning opportunity for our parents. Through studying in parents' school, our parents know how to educate children, how to cooperate with school teachers, how to cultivate and exercise children's interests in all aspects, and help us establish a correct view of education and talents. I also deeply understand that family education is the most important key in the process of children's growth and learning. Now I'll talk about my feelings in class. From primary school to junior high school, with the increase of curriculum subjects and knowledge, children can't adapt to it for a while, and their academic performance is not as good as before. Coupled with the new school environment and some physiological changes in adolescence, children seem to be getting farther and farther away from us, which parents do not understand. Sometimes they would rather talk to someone online than communicate with their parents. "Rebellion" is becoming more and more obvious. As parents of children, we are also confused. ...
Through the study of parents' school, I think that to be a good parent, we should first put ourselves in the children's shoes, treat children with a normal heart and understand them; To cultivate children's self-esteem and self-confidence, we should learn to communicate with children, strive to enter their inner world, treat children as friends and confidants, and let them develop independently and healthily in a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere.
Of course, you should be friends with your children. As parents, if they don't learn new knowledge, get in touch with new ideas, lack knowledge and have old ideas, they can't understand what their children are thinking. So try to get in touch with popular things as much as possible. Such as popular ideas, popular clothes, popular technology and popular music, so as to reduce the generation gap and create channels of mutual trust and communication.
At the same time, being a good parent should have good psychological quality, good moral sentiment, optimism and humor, courage to overcome difficulties, perseverance and the ability to control their emotions! You can't hate a child because of his dissatisfaction; Avoid emotional ups and downs, especially be good at controlling anger! Only in this way can children form a good emotional intelligence imperceptibly!
Parents also taught me in class: As parents, we should have a normal heart, and we should have a normal heart for children's education and grades! We should correctly evaluate children's learning ability and don't blindly compare with others, which most parents, including me, have failed to do. In fact, we are ordinary parents, but why should we make our children outstanding? Maybe when we ask our child with a normal heart, she will become a person who makes us happy, healthy, lively, happy and successful!
Educating children is a long-term, arduous, arduous and complicated task ... So many, I find it far more difficult to be a good parent than a good child!
In a word, my parents taught me a lot in class. Although it is really not easy to do, I will correct it bit by bit, strive to improve my psychological quality, study with my children and make progress together!
How to write about parents' school experience
Another semester is about to pass. In this semester, I don't know how much knowledge my child has learned, but I feel that my child has made progress in writing. This may be related to my child reading more extracurricular books this semester. How to make children gain rich knowledge in reading?
I think first of all, let children realize that it is helpful for writing, and use the good words learned from reading in writing. Only by reading more books and thinking more can you write a good composition. Secondly, to improve children's interest in reading, we should create a good reading environment for children, often take children to bookstores to buy some books, and often talk with children to find out their advantages and disadvantages in the conversation. In order to make children interested in reading, we can provide them with more opportunities to do housework and do small experiments, enrich their lives, and don't make them feel bored. Choose some rich books for children to read, guide them how to understand the contents of books, understand the contents of books, let them write, and improve their independent writing ability through the combination of reading and writing.
In order to let children develop good reading habits, I often buy books that children are interested in to read and create a good reading environment for children. I also set up a bookstore for children and put some pictures on the wall to enhance their reading interest. Cultivating children's good reading habits is not a day's work, it is not only a test for children, but also a test for us as parents. We should urge children to read an article every day, so that children can consciously remember good sentences and words in the article. Parents should try to answer their children's questions correctly when they encounter problems in reading. When they encounter unanswered questions, they should read other books, treat children's problems correctly, help children improve their thinking space, read them repeatedly, and deeply understand the meaning of the words they first came into contact with, so that their memories will be more profound.
The fourth chapter is how to write about the experience of parents' school.
Thank you very much for providing our parents with such a good learning platform. This training gave me the opportunity to study, communicate and make progress with many parents and teachers. Summarize the following points through training: First, learn to be friends with children.
People are basically equal, so are parents and students. However, due to the problem of ideas, there is often an unequal relationship between us. Corporal punishment by parents is the most typical example. They think that children can only remember for a long time after corporal punishment, so that they can correct their shortcomings. In practice, we often ignore this point. The child is rebellious. It is necessary to communicate with children more and understand their needs through communication, so as to adjust their enthusiasm.
Second, set a good example.
The power of example is enormous, especially for children. It is easy for parents to imitate some of their children's languages or habits. They think that parents can, why can't I, cultivate children's good living habits and cultivate their independent ability. Parents can let their children do some things and do more work at home, which can be done at school and can certainly be done at home.
Third, create opportunities for children to practice by themselves.
Everyone has his own advantages, and so do children. We should tap children's abilities and talents, guide them to use and develop their abilities more effectively, let children use their brains first, communicate with them whether they are right or wrong, why they are wrong and why they are right, and guide them to find problems and correct them so as to make better efforts in the future.