"New daughter-in-law" is a newly married daughter-in-law, so it is necessary to teach her good habits; "Educating children and babies" means educating children to be kind from infancy, helping them to form a good habit and habit, and keeping them on the right path from the beginning.
If you are evil from the beginning, then every step you take will be evil. Bad habits are not easy to correct after they are formed. Therefore, we should seriously educate from the beginning.
Children's education is not only a family problem, but also related to the chaos management of the whole country. Educate children well, and the country and the world will be well governed; If children don't have a good education, they will grow up to be bandits and become those disgusting and cruel people, and the world will be in chaos. Therefore, the rise and fall of the country and the chaos in the world all begin with the success of family education.
The education of children is more about his moral character, personality, comprehensive quality, awe and code of conduct.
What direction should we focus on children's education now? Now is the era of knowledge economy. School education is mainly about knowledge and skills, and the proportion of moral and personality education is getting smaller and smaller.
Every parent should be soberly aware of this. School education pays more attention to knowledge and skills, so moral and personality education must be undertaken by families, and parents can't give up.
But now the situation is reversed. Many parents only pay attention to their children's academic performance, how they did in the exam, how many points they scored and how many points they dropped. He cares about this every day, in fact, this problem should be concerned by the child's teacher.
Parents should care about their children's morality and personality. This is a problem that may not be paid much attention to in school education at present, but it is a very important problem.
To educate children well, parents should first set an example, and children are very imitative. To teach children filial piety, faith, courtesy, honesty and shame, parents must first do it.
As parents, if they are not filial to the elderly at all, they will boss the elderly around every day, live in a good house and let their parents live in a bad house. And then your children see all this. When you get old, they will do the same to you, bossing you around and letting you live in a rotten house. Therefore, "filial piety" is not only spoken, but also really done in action.
What is bad about family education now is that many parents don't set an example and don't know how to educate the next generation, forming a vicious circle. Although they can't educate their children, they hope their children can succeed. They are afraid of losing at the so-called starting line, so they put a lot of burden on their children and enrolled them in many extra-long classes, including piano classes, English classes and computer classes.
Nowadays, family education is all about knowledge and skills, and moral education is largely ignored. Few parents can think of letting a moral person teach their children morality.
Each of us Buddhists, in our family education, should try our best to follow Yin Zu's repeated teaching in a letter, so that children can get in touch with the education of saints from an early age, such as the Three Character Classics, Disciples' Rules, the Analects of Confucius, Mencius, universities, the Doctrine of the Mean, etc., so that they can be familiar with and recite, and let them be a person in their hearts.
Further educate your child about the causal cycle, make him believe in Amitabha, and read the Buddha's name more! As long as he recites Buddhism, he can embark on the right path of life under the protection of Tommy's bright name.
If he can believe in Sambo and become a Buddhist, parents can rest assured that the child is definitely a good person on earth. Maybe he can't do an earth-shattering career, but he can't do such a thing as being put in prison.