First, involution is serious

Many parents arrange various remedial classes and interest classes from their children's age, and even go to cram schools when their children are still in normal school. Children's schoolbags are heavier than others and go to bed later than adults!

Some parents often compare their children with others' children in order to "keep up with the joneses". The phrase "I hope my child will succeed, and I hope my daughter will succeed" is firmly imprinted in the hearts of all children in China.

Second, China's parents dislike "praise" the least.

It seems that praise makes children proud and has no motivation to learn. In fact, everyone likes to be praised and praised. The purpose of encouraging a child is to give him confidence and hope that he can continue to persist or even do better.

Some parents just praise their children's cleverness and praise them with vague words, which will make them feel that only I am "smart" and will boast, and I am not interested in other things, thus losing my enthusiasm.

Better educate children to be obedient and arrange extracurricular time reasonably.

First, listen.

When communicating with your child, you must listen to him carefully and let him feel the attention and respect of his parents. Only in this way can you build up your child's self-esteem, and at the same time, you can seriously consider your own thoughts, what to do, how to say it, and how to say it in conversations with adults, which will help children develop the habit of rational thinking.

Second, arrange extracurricular time reasonably.

Children can be called preschool children before they go to primary school, and preschool children mainly play. Even though many classes have been given to children at this time, the most important thing in class is to play. Therefore, it is unrealistic and useless for children to learn a lot from this matter.

After entering primary school, children's interests have gradually changed, preschool games have been unable to attract them, and they have gradually become interested in learning. By then, your children will study hard.

Parents should create a harmonious living environment for their children. Harmonious family relations and orderly family life are helpful for children to cultivate their sentiments and are beneficial to their physical and mental health.