"This boy is too polite. We are obviously farther away from this position than she is. He can sit down safely, but it depends on whether we need to sit down. " I said to my sister with emotion.
"This is a tutor. At first glance, it is a child with a tutor. " My sister squinted at the little boy and said, "Many parents think that the quality of children's conduct stems from the quality of school education, but they ignore a key point: the birth, growth, work and marriage of children ... every link of life is inseparable from family education. What you can learn at school is knowledge and skills, but what you learn at home is how to be a man. "
My sister's words inspired me to think about education. For the whole process of education, I can't put forward constructive opinions like those respected educators or wise men who have been engaged in education for many years, but as a fledgling educator, this year's educational practice has really inspired me a lot.
1. A good education is endless.
Just as it is never too late to learn, there is no end to education. Growing up, what I heard the most was that children go to school well and don't have to worry about him when they go to school. So far, more and more parents are focusing on saving education funds and looking for quality schools. It seems that they have saved enough money to choose a good school. Since then, children's education has nothing to do with themselves. This is not to deny the role of saving money and choosing a school in education, but in addition, parents need to pay attention to how to embed their children's daily education in the process of getting along with their children, so that their behavior is better than the pleasure of saving enough money and the anxiety of choosing a good school.
Therefore, sending children to school is not the end of education, but the starting point of cooperation between family education and school education, which is a turning point in education. Even if children become school-age children, primary school students, middle school students, and even college students, family education should maintain the main theme at every stage, so that school education can play its maximum functional radiation role.
Parents should always bear in mind that school education belongs to functional education, not all-round education, and family education belongs to character education, not shirking education. Any kind of education has a turning point, but it has no end.
2. A good education is to set an example.
Teacher Yang Lan once publicly talked about his views on children's education in "The World is Big, Fortunately for You". Those vivid views, without preaching or showing off, just used warm examples to tell her how to get along with her son. She wanted her son to play the piano, but he always resisted. She took her son to Zzburg Music Festival in sager, Austria, in order to cultivate his musical aesthetic feeling. However, after the end, she heard her son's inner struggle and even said that she would break the piano. Finally, she simply agreed with her son that if she passed Piano Band 4, she would decide whether to continue to learn piano. The fact is that after passing the exam, her son never touched the piano again. Until one day, I found that my son's deep fascination with painting was deeply infected by his scene of focusing on painting in a soft afternoon. From then on, I fell in love with painting. A boy who once couldn't sit still after listening to a piece of music for less than 20 minutes can sit in front of the drawing board for hours. At that time, Teacher Yang Lan knew that children observe their parents' behavior, not preach.
Therefore, a good education is to set an example, not to be ignored or forced. The process of children's growth is like making a painting. Whether the finished product is a masterpiece or a poor one depends on the painter, and this painter is the parents, that is, their words and deeds.
You want your children to know kindness in the future, so as parents, you should be kind;
If you want your children to enjoy reading in the future, then as parents, you must persist in learning;
If you want your children to dare to explore in the future, then as parents, you must constantly change;
How high you expect from your children, you should have higher requirements for yourself, because what parents say and do is what they say and do to their children.
3. A good education knows how to choose.
China's Chinese character culture is extensive and profound. A "wish" contains "give" and "get", which can only be obtained by giving up, and so can education.
Now there are all kinds of cram schools and interest classes in the society, so many parents have joined all kinds of "class registration fever" and "counseling fever" The whole social state is in this frenzied anxiety, and so is the education of children. Of course, we should put it into practice with a heart of expecting our children to succeed, so many children have full classes every day since they were young, such as Olympic math tutoring in the morning, English learning in the afternoon and dance training in the evening ... in order to cultivate their children into eighteen martial arts. However, an adult's energy is limited, let alone a child who plays with his heart. Not the more the better, but what suits you.
Speaking of which, it reminds me of an educational film "The Starting Line" that I watched with my friends yesterday. The education of children runs through this film. The hero and heroine try their best to show off their wealth, pretend to be poor and sell poorly in order to get their children into one of the best schools. What impressed me the most was the part of showing off wealth. In order to show their wealth in their parents' interview, the couple wore various famous brands from head to toe, such as Dior earrings, Prada glasses, Gucci bags and Burberry shirts ... Every inch of their bodies said loudly: I am rich. Their appearance dazzled the educational adviser, who was critical of them in every way. At this time, the consultant who faced them only said three words: less is more. Then proudly turned back to the office, and finally the two protagonists could only stand in the same place awkwardly. I could have been an elegant rich man, but which model was too concave and became a local tyrant. My strength proved that although I was rich, I was only superficial.
Less is more, enough is enough. Therefore, children's investment in education is not a little better, but appropriate. If a child likes to learn dance, don't force her to learn Taekwondo. After all, temperament is better than strength. If the child likes to learn to draw, don't force her to arrange flowers After all, creation is better than manufacturing. If a child likes learning English, don't force her to become a math champion. After all, language charm is no less than logical thinking. ...
A good education should know how to choose, and only by choosing can we strive for perfection.
What kind of people we ask our children to be, what kind of people we must be first, what kind of people we can be, and what kind of people we can educate our children to be. As parents, you should have high demands on yourself and high expectations for your children, so you can't slack off on yourself, because the key to a good education lies in family education, the way you speak, your ability to do things, and your attitude towards life, which are imperceptibly teaching your children how to behave at home, at school and in society, and also subtly guiding your children. Therefore, the best education is actually hidden in the family.