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What are the obstacles to success?
According to Sir chesterfield's research, the main reasons for failure can be summarized as follows:

(1) lacks a clear purpose in life.

If there is no clear goal in life, there is no hope of success. According to the analysis of relevant research institutions, 98 people out of 100 have no such purpose. Perhaps this is the main reason for their failure.

(2) Nothing matters without ambition and ambition.

Therefore, we should never hope for those who are unwilling to make progress and pay the price.

(3) Lack of indomitable spirit.

Most of us do things in an anticlimactic way. Besides, when we see signs of failure, we tend to retreat immediately. The indomitable spirit is irreplaceable. People who take perseverance as their motto will not leave immediately because they find failure. Failure can't break the indomitable spirit.

(4) Negative personality.

Negative personality will make others stay away from it, so there is no hope of success. Success comes from the use of strength, and strength requires everyone's efforts and cooperation. Negative personality will not produce cooperation.

(5) Procrastination.

This is also the most common cause of failure. The "lingering procrastination" always follows everyone, waiting to ruin people's chances of success. Most of us fail in life because we always wait for a "good opportunity" to start doing something worth doing. Do not wait! The timing will never be "just right" Right where you stand, starting with the tools in your hand, you will get more and better "good opportunities" in the process of doing it.

(6) delusion "something for nothing".

The nature of gamblers drives millions of people to failure. 1929 the wall street stock market crashed, leaving many people bankrupt. We can find evidence of their failure here.

(7) lack of self-discipline.

Discipline comes from self-control. A person must be able to control all his negative emotions and behaviors. You must control yourself before you can control others. You will find that self-control is the most difficult. If you can't conquer yourself, you will be conquered by yourself. When you see yourself in the mirror, he is both your best friend and your greatest enemy.

(8) Excessive caution.

People who don't want to take risks usually only get what others have left. Being too cautious is as bad as not being cautious. We should prevent these two extremes. Life is full of opportunities.

(9) excessive fear.

Fear of the unknown and fear of change are also the main reasons why many people fail. You must overcome these fears in order to serve others effectively.

(10) Superstition and prejudice.

Superstition is a kind of fear. This is also a sign of ignorance. Successful people have an open mind and are not afraid of anything.

(1 1) indecisive.

A successful person can make up his mind quickly and change his decision according to the change of the situation. If a loser makes a decision, he must be very slow and often has to change his mind. Hesitation and procrastination are twin brothers. As long as you see one, you will find another. Destroy them completely before they tie your feet to theirs and embark on the road of failure!

(12) Spending money without restraint.

A spendthrift can't succeed because he can't live a frugal life. It is necessary to set a certain proportion of income as savings and form a planned saving habit. Whether a person can bargain with his employer when looking for a job often depends on whether you have money in the bank. A man without money can only accept any job offered to him by others.

(13) Lack of enthusiasm.

People who lack enthusiasm will not be believed. And enthusiasm is infectious, and enthusiastic people are often welcomed by everyone.

(14) paranoid.

People who can't accommodate many problems rarely make progress. The consequence of paranoia is that a person no longer seeks knowledge. The most destructive paranoia is closely related to religious, racial and political ideas.

(15) unrestrained.

The most destructive indulgence is related to diet and sexual activity. Excessive indulgence in these indulgences is fatal to your career.

(16) Deliberate deception.

Honesty is irreplaceable. It is understandable that a person lies for a period of time because he is in an unfavorable environment. But a person who cheats on purpose is hopeless. Sooner or later, he will suffer the consequences, ranging from loss of credibility to loss of freedom.

(17) Pride and vanity.

These qualities are like red lights, inaccessible and fatal to success.

(18) Guess instead of thinking.

Most people are either inattentive or too lazy to think carefully about the nature of the problem. They prefer to take action based on ideas generated by speculation or hasty judgment.

(19) is not good at cooperating with others.

Many people lose their status and opportunities because they can't cooperate with others. No well-informed business person or leader will tolerate this shortcoming.

(20) the adverse environmental impact of childhood.

"Young branches bend when they are young, and they also bend after they become trees." Most people's criminal tendencies are caused by bad childhood environment and improper friends.

(2 1) Lack of education.

This shortcoming is easy to overcome. Experience has proved that self-taught people are often the best learners, and it is not enough to have a college diploma. It is not enough to "know" knowledge, what is important is the application of knowledge. People can get paid not because they know, but because they can apply what they know to their work.

(22) Poor health.

Without health, there will be no success. Many reasons for poor health can be overcome and controlled. These reasons are mainly:

① Excessive consumption of unhealthy food;

② Negative thoughts, emotions and behaviors;

③ Abnormal venting and unrestrained sexual desire;

④ Lack of normal physical exercise;

⑤ Due to the respiratory system, the supply of fresh air is insufficient.

(23) choose the wrong marriage partner.

This is the most common reason among losers. Marriage brings people close ties. Unless this relationship is harmonious, failure will follow. The failure of marriage shows sadness and unhappiness, which will ruin all one's ambitions.

(24) Choose the wrong occupation.

If a person doesn't like his career, he won't succeed. When looking for a job, the most important thing is to choose a job for which you can work wholeheartedly.

(25) Choose the wrong business partner.

This is the most common cause of enterprise failure. You should be very careful when looking for an employer. Employers should be smart and successful.

(26) Insufficient funds.

Starting a business for the first time, but not enough reserve capital to bear the impact of their mistakes and help them tide over the difficulties until they establish credibility, this is the reason for an ordinary loser.

Knowing the common causes of failure, we can "prescribe the right medicine" and prevent it as early as possible. If you are mentally prepared, it will be easier for you to seize the opportunity.