Parents' words and deeds are silent teachers, and they are conscious or unconscious role models, which strongly play a subtle role. Therefore, in order to achieve the ideal educational effect, parents must set an example, be strict with themselves at all times and everywhere, and become a good example for their children's life.
Locke, a British educator, also argues that when educating children, it is better to set an example for them than to let them remember the rules. He emphasized the educational role of demonstration and environment, and opposed simple preaching. He said: "No matter what lessons are given to the child, no matter what smart and elegant training is given to him every day, it is the companions around him who can influence his behavior most. They are the role models of his guardians."
Masaru Ibuka, a Japanese educator, believes that parents' words and deeds are the best teaching materials for children, and first-class parents make first-class children; Children should be admitted to first-class kindergartens and schools, and more importantly, they should be trained in first-class families. Family is a child's first class, and parents are a child's first teacher. Parents are children's initial imitations, and the qualities, personalities, habits and attitudes that children learn from their parents will have a great impact on their life development.
In addition, playing games, literacy games and telling stories with children is not only a good way to set an example and become good friends. Here we recommend cats, small and handsome, who know Chinese characters comprehensively and often study with children. People's memory of pictures is very profound. Compared with boring words, they need to practice line by line, and the picture memory method interests children.
This is just one way, and there are many ways to communicate and educate children. If these two points can be achieved, will it be far from the success of children?