As the saying goes, "failure is the mother of success", when you stand the test of suffering. You can make friends with success. Treat suffering calmly. Suffering is a fortune, which can temper people's will and make people get the true meaning of life. There is an idiom called "something for nothing". Another proverb says, "You can only become a master if you suffer." . All these are encouraging people to stand the test of suffering, be patient and have hope in the face of suffering. Only by maintaining this mentality can we move towards the glory of life.
We live in this competitive and stressful society. There are many, many difficulties that embarrass us every day. We will find that we are in trouble at any time. How should we treat these difficulties? How to treat these dilemmas? If we keep complaining every day, our mood may get worse and worse, and complaining can't help us out of the predicament, it will only make the situation worse and worse. So what is the most important thing for us at this time? I think it's just a kind of negative thinking, treating difficulties as gifts!
In real life, you and I, perhaps due to the misunderstanding of family and friends, will have a depressed side. Maybe this is what we call life. The eternal sky exists only in the depths of the soul. No matter what difficulties life faces, as long as we try our best to face them, difficulties are also a gift.
One day, the lion, known as the king of the forest, came before the gods: "I am very grateful to you for giving me such a magnificent physique and such great strength that I have enough ability to rule the whole forest."
Hearing this, God smiled and asked, "But that's not why you came to see me today!" " ! It seems that something is bothering you! "
The lion gave a gentle roar and said, "God really knows me! I came here today to ask for something. Because my ability is no matter how good, I am always awakened by crows every day. Oh, my god I beg you, give me a little more strength, so that I don't wake up by crows! "
God smiled and said, "Go find the elephant. I will give you a satisfactory answer. "
The lion rushed to the lake to look for the elephant. Before he saw the elephant, he heard the "whirring" sound of the elephant stamping its feet.
The lion sped up to the elephant, only to see that the elephant was stamping its feet angrily.
The lion asked the elephant, "Why are you so angry?"
The elephant shook its big ears desperately and roared, "There is a nasty little mosquito who always tries to get into my ear and tickles me to death."
The lion left the elephant and thought, "With such a huge body, the elephant is still afraid of such a thin mosquito. What can I complain about? " ? After all, chickens crow only once a day, but mosquitoes harass elephants all the time. In this way, I am much luckier than him. As the lion walked, he looked back at the elephant that was still stamping. I thought to myself, "God let me see the elephant. I think he just wants to tell me that everyone will get into trouble and it can't help everyone. In that case, I can only rely on myself! "Anyway, as long as the chicken crows in the future, I will take it as a chicken to remind me that it's time to get up. Let me see, is it good for me? "
Dilemma is actually a gift. When people encounter difficulties in the process of achieving their goals and their psychological needs are not met, people's emotional reactions such as dissatisfaction, disappointment, depression, anxiety, fear and anger are called dilemmas. There is an old saying in China, "Nine times out of ten, life is in adversity". Difficulties are inevitable for everyone.
The long road of life, no matter how successful people are, have to go through difficult tests. Perhaps, you need to go through the baptism of big waves to reach the other side of the sea. Perhaps, you need to be in the heat of summer to usher in a bumper autumn; Perhaps, you need to endure the biting cold wind in winter to welcome the flowers in spring; Perhaps, you need to endure the desolation and dryness of the desert in order to be nourished by the continuous drizzle. However, as long as you dare to face, dare to fight against suffering and stand the test, you can get unexpected fruits. I don't know that people's life is a struggle in adversity. As long as they can stand the test and "rush through", the front will be "smooth sailing" and vice versa. Mencius said, "Born in sorrow, died in happiness" is the truth.
Five-year-old Zhang Haidi suffers from myelopathy and is paralyzed from the chest down, so he can't go to school. However, in the face of such a cruel fate, she fought against the disease with tenacious perseverance and perseverance, taught herself all the courses in primary and secondary schools, taught herself college English, Japanese, German and Esperanto, and studied at universities and postgraduate courses. 1983 began to engage in literary creation, and he wrote and translated more than ten thousand words of 1 and became a famous writer in China.
As disabled people, it is conceivable that they can still achieve such results after undergoing the test of hardships. Why can't we able-bodied people face difficulties and challenges better?
In the growth process of life, how many storms and tempering will it take to mature; How many tests does it have to undergo to be strong?
Suffering is a test for everyone. Only through the test of suffering can we create an extraordinary life.
Beethoven, a German composer, was born in Bonn in the winter of 1770 in a humble hut with curved walls. His parents were at odds and lived in poverty. Beethoven's tragic childhood caused him to be serious, withdrawn, stubborn and independent, which bred strong and profound feelings in his heart. He began to compose music at the age of 12, and participated in orchestra performances at the age of 14, and was paid to support his family. It can be said that Beethoven almost became a symbol of suffering. At the age of 17. Mother died of illness, spent the last money in the family, leaving two younger brothers, a sister and a degenerate father. Soon, Beethoven got typhoid fever and smallpox again. The misfortune he suffered is completely beyond the comprehension of a child.
However, Beethoven survived and worked in an orchestra for family life and his hobbies. Beethoven's music works are full of noble thoughts and feelings: some are like rushing rapids, giving people confidence and strength; Some are beautiful, simple, solemn and quiet in nature; Some of them seem to pour in the shade like a clear moon, ethereal and gentle, beautiful and far-reaching ...
At first, Beethoven tried to cover up the defects of deafness and dullness. He avoided social activities in case others found him deaf. Later, he was completely deaf in both ears, which could not be concealed. He lived in seclusion in Heiligenstadt, a suburb of Vienna.
The cruel fate made the young musician miserable, but in the end it failed to make him depressed. He gave up the idea of suicide and said to his friend, "It was art, but art kept me. I can't leave this world until I finish my mission. " Beethoven decided to challenge his tragic fate. In his letter to a friend, he said, "I will hold my destiny by the throat, and it will never make me yield."
The period of Beethoven's hard struggle with fate was the most creative and brilliant period in his life. Most of his successful works were written after he was deaf. With amazing perseverance, I worked hard and made great achievements. Opened a brand-new page in the history of world music.
It is difficult for a person to aspire if he does not experience the test of setbacks, humiliation and suffering. As the saying goes: "If the sky falls to the people of Sri Lanka, we must first suffer from their minds, their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies, and mess with their actions, so be patient and get what they can't." Life is not always smooth sailing, it will go through ups and downs. Some people have survived, others have not. Suffering is God's love for you. Suffering is internal, rooted in the long history of mankind, and also goes deep into the soil of human mind. If you are strong enough, you can go through the difficulties. Conquer suffering bravely, and you will marvel at your cleverness and greatness. You will find that life is so beautiful. The dark past is the dawn. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? The sky will be clearer after the rain. Suffering is not terrible, what is terrible is that there is no courage to overcome suffering. The terrible thing is that we can't face up to suffering. Only suffering can prove your ability; Only suffering can make you gain capital.
Suffering is the best teacher in life, and suffering is the wealth of life. Suffering is an underground fire. Suffering sharpens your character. Suffering is to put you to the test. Suffering is to sublimate your thoughts. Suffering is opening a beautiful scenery for you.
—— Quoted from Yanbian People's Publishing House, Anger is Better than Disappointment.