Good family education is useful for a lifetime. How do parents give their children quality family education?
(1) There are many ways to educate children. Pay special attention to "language", and stick education is the least choice, especially not to "stick education" children outside. No matter what comes home, choosing the right way to make children take responsibility for the wrong behavior is easier for children to agree than educating or scolding them in public places.
(2) Parents should do their best and reflect on themselves when making mistakes. If a child has no idea of repentance after making a mistake, he probably really doesn't know where he is wrong. After all, the child is not very big. For example, some children are particularly excited at night, stamping their feet or shouting in the room.
Parents should tell their children that neighbors are sleeping, which will disturb their rest and cause disputes between neighbors. What's more, it is illegal to educate your children calmly. Parents should set an example, not punish their children, and let them sincerely admit that they have made mistakes.
(3) Don't be angry. Don't shout loudly that children need review space. Parents only need to tell their children that their actions are wrong, and the rest will make them reflect. This will be more effective than endless accusations. Control your anger, don't lose your temper with children at will, even if you don't say anything, you can achieve very good teaching results. Losing your temper will always make your child rebel. Reasoning with children calmly and severely will make them listen.
(4) Don't expose children's scars and tell them what to do. Parents should only talk about current mistakes, and should not always mention their children's past shortcomings. This will only aggravate their dissatisfaction and increase their pressure, which is not conducive to their future study and life. Exposing shortcomings in education will stimulate children's dignity and make them feel insecure.
Educating children is parents' lifelong learning, understanding children's thoughts, identifying with children, inspiring children, and making them grow up in a harmonious atmosphere. Away from the education of sticks, children will be happier and form a prominent personality. When children make mistakes, in a sense, it is also the experience of children trying to fail, and it is also a valuable growth experience for children. As long as parents inspire their children, they can let them know what is wrong and what is right, and firmly believe that their children will get better and better!