"I am a fifth-grade primary school student. I like someone and want to express my love to him on Valentine's Day. If I say' associate with me', will he answer' yes'? What does it feel like for primary school students to fall in love? I have no experience at all. Who can give some advice? "
There are many enthusiastic adults leaving messages for this fifth-grade girl. As the end of this article, perhaps our parents can get more enlightenment and hints from these answers:
"When I was your age, I fell in love with someone, but I never had the courage to express myself. My friend also likes the same person, but when my friend confessed to each other, he was rejected. I sometimes think: if only I had the courage to express myself at that time! Maybe I can leave good memories.
You are still so young, I hope you will not learn to stifle your feelings at such a young age, but make positive efforts to affirm yourself. If you really like each other, tell them boldly. However, if you have the intention to communicate with each other, then you must learn and master the corresponding knowledge in advance. "
"Love is an essential part of personality formation. You can always fall in love, but don't imitate the communication between men and women like adults, because only when you grow up and begin to understand who you are and what a real relationship is, will you really understand what it feels like to fall in love with someone. "
1) Parents give sex education to their children at an appropriate time.
When children show signs of puppy love, parents should not panic and give them enthusiastic help. "Handsome boys don't love, girls don't love." It is common for children at this stage to like a certain opposite sex, but this kind of love can only be maintained at the level of friendship, not "love", because it is in the golden age of long body and long knowledge, and the physical and mental development is not yet mature. It would be a pity if you neglect your studies and your future because of puppy love.
(2) If it is found that the child is deeply in puppy love and the child is emotional about the object he loves, parents should not treat the child in a sarcastic, scolding or even punishing way, let alone rush to school, the other party's home or complain to the neighborhood, which will cause a storm in the city.
The best way is to understand children, be considerate of children and use the method of "cold treatment". Because when children have the feeling of love, they will be distressed by sadness, and even have sexual entanglement because of the excitement of longing for childbirth. Parents should not only understand their inner feelings, but also guide them from the side. It takes some time to listen to children's complaints patiently and help them get out of the confusion of "puppy love".
(3) Parents should encourage their children to actively participate in activities beneficial to their physical and mental health, or take their children to travel on weekends, winter and summer vacations with conditions to divert their attention. The school's colorful collective activities, public welfare work, etc. Encourage children to participate, and family travel makes spare time full of fun and happiness. Perhaps, the emotion of "puppy love" will be weakened and transferred appropriately.
Children's hearts are much purer than adults! You imagine that they may not understand at all. What they understand is much simpler. How to educate them, only communicate more, understand the facts, and then guide them.