One is to convince people by reasoning, that is, to convince people by reasoning, to distinguish right from wrong, to clarify the truth, to dispel people's doubts, to understand their hearts, to do what they do, and to be good at what they do, so as to achieve the purpose of unlocking happiness and educating people.
The second is emotion, that is, to impress each other with emotion, to create a kind of mood and atmosphere by exaggerating feelings, to stimulate people's emotions, to make people excited and moved, to make people's true feelings come out, to produce empathy, so as to achieve the purpose of making the other party agree.
Man is a rational animal, so he needs rationality; People are also emotional animals, so they need sensibility. Combining the two, the persuasion effect will be better.
But in life, people are often emotional animals, and emotions often overcome reason. Many times, people care about their feelings and ignore their reason. For the sake of family, love and friendship, they often do unreasonable things. When you are emotional, you will lose your mind.
Therefore, since ancient times, when persuading others, sometimes rationality is not necessarily better than sensibility.
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In other words, the current ta thinks that the affair is 100% good for him, so ta will think that this is a real feeling, and accordingly, ta will think that there is no feeling with you.
At this time, it is basically useless for you and ta to be emotional, because ta doesn't think there is any feeling between you at all. Even if there is, it is only based on the feelings of living together for many years. They call it "love". What they need now is the kind of "love" between men and women. For this part, they think that you can't give it, and a third party can give it; Or, they don't need your love at all.