1, gauss solves math problems

1796 One day, at the University of G? ttingen in Germany, a 19-year-old young man finished his dinner and began to do two routine math problems assigned to him by his tutor. As usual, the first two questions were successfully completed within 2 hours. But the young man found that the tutor assigned him an extra question today. The third question, written on a small piece of paper, is to make a positive 17 polygon with only compasses and an uncalibrated ruler. He did it without thinking much. However, young people feel very hard.

At first, he thought, maybe my tutor made it harder for me. However, with the passage of time, no progress has been made on the third question. Young people rack their brains and feel that the knowledge of mathematics they have learned is of no help in solving problems. Difficulties aroused the young people's fighting spirit: I must do it! He picked up the compass and ruler, drew on the paper, and tried to solve the problem with some unconventional ideas ... When there was a glimmer of light outside the window, the young man breathed a sigh of relief, and he finally worked out the problem! Young people feel a little guilty and blame themselves when they meet their mentor. He said to his tutor, "I did the third question you assigned me all night, and failed to live up to your cultivation ..." The tutor took over the students' homework and was immediately shocked. His voice trembled and said, "Did you really ... make it yourself?" The young man looked at the excited tutor with some doubts and replied, "Yes, but I was so stupid that it took me a whole night to make it."

The tutor asked him to sit down, took out compasses and rulers, spread the paper on the table, and let the young people do the questions in front of him. The young man solved the problem quickly. The tutor excitedly said to the young man, "Do you know that you have solved a math problem with a history of more than 2,000 years? Newton didn't solve it, Archimedes didn't solve it, and you solved it overnight! You are a genius! I have been studying this difficult problem recently. When I assigned you a topic yesterday, I accidentally put a small note with this topic in the topic for you. " Later, whenever the young man recalled this incident, he always said, "If someone told me that this is a math problem with a history of more than 2,000 years, I might not be able to solve it. This young man is Gauss, the prince of mathematics.

Comments: Most children rarely think of obeying the rules and are rarely afraid. Some things, when it is not clear how difficult, children can often do better. In fact, fear of difficulties is not difficulties, but fear of oneself and lack of confidence in oneself. Therefore, in the process of educating children, don't instill fear of difficulties in children with your own eyes; Children should be encouraged to think, do and build self-confidence.

2. The light of the oil lamp remains the same.

A student is always afraid to ask questions because he is afraid to disturb the teacher. The teacher is very careful After spending a long time with students, the teacher finally found this phenomenon and asked him why. The student said, "Sorry, teacher." I forgot the answer you gave me again. I want to ask you again, but I am afraid to bother you again, because I have bothered you many times! "The teacher thought for a moment and said to him," Go and light an oil lamp first. "The students did it. The teacher went on to say, "Go and get some more oil lamps and light them with the first one. "Students also did it. At this time, the teacher smiled and said to him, "The first lamp lit all the other oil lamps, but did you lose the light of the first lamp?" "The student replied," No! " The teacher said to him again, "I won't lose anything by sharing what I have with you, but I will have greater happiness and satisfaction." So, when you have any questions, you are welcome to come to me at any time. "

Comments: Parents should let their children know that a person's knowledge is very limited, but after many people discuss and consult each other for a long time, their knowledge and background will be improved, so they can't help asking others if they encounter any problems. Consulting is also a kind of knowledge, you can always consult, but the people who consult are different, direct and indirect. You can consult books, classmates, teachers and parents. Without consultation, there will be no progress and no success.

3, let the plan give way to action

Omar was a successful emperor. His mind is full of wisdom, he is steady and knowledgeable, which is admirable. Once, a young man asked him, "how did you do all this?" Did you make a good plan for your life? " "Omar said with a smile," at this age, I realized that it is useless to make a plan. "When I was 20 years old, I said to myself," I want to spend the first 10 year after I was 20 years old to learn knowledge; 10 Travel abroad in the second year; 10 In the third year, I will marry a beautiful girl and have several children.

In the last 10 year, I will live in seclusion and think about rural life. "Finally, one day in the seventh year of 10, I found that I had learned nothing, so I postponed my travel arrangements. In the next four afternoons, I studied law. And I have become a pivotal figure in this field, and people regard me as an example. I want to travel at this time, which is my long-cherished wish. But I can't get away from everything. I was afraid that others would call me irresponsible behind my back, so I had to give up the idea of traveling. By the time I was 40, I began to think about my marriage. But I will never find a girl as beautiful as I thought before. I was single until I was 62. I was ashamed at that time. I wanted to get married at my age. So I gave up the idea of marrying such a girl. Then I thought of my last wish, which is to find a quiet place to live in seclusion. But I have never found such a place. If I get sick, I can't even realize this wish. This is my life plan, but it has not been realized. " Young people, don't spend time making long plans, just do it as soon as you think of it. Give up the plan and act now! "Omar finally said.

Comments: In the process of children's learning, instead of making a long study plan for children, it is better to urge children to start action immediately and grasp the time now. In concrete actions, there may be new discoveries and new ideas. If adjusted in time, we may find new ways and methods that are more suitable for children's growth and development.

4. Pay attention to children's specialties

A poor young man wandered to Paris. He hopes his father's friend Uncle Charles can help him find a job to make a living. "Are you proficient in mathematics?" Charles asked. The young man shook his head shyly. "What about historical geography?" The youth still shook his head embarrassedly. "What about the law?" The young man bowed his head in embarrassment. Charles kept asking questions, and the young man could only shake his head and tell the other person that he didn't seem to have any strengths, even the smallest strengths. "Then write down your address first. I have to help you find a job. " Charles finally said. The young man shyly wrote down his name and address and turned to leave, but Charles stopped him: "Your name is beautifully written, which is your advantage." "Writing a name is an advantage? The young man saw the affirmative answer in the other person's eyes. I can write my name in praise, and then I can write it beautifully, I can write it beautifully, I can write it beautifully ... The encouraged young people enlarge their advantages little by little, and their steps will suddenly relax. A few years later, young people really wrote world-famous classics. This young man is/kloc-Dumas, a famous French writer in the 8th century.

Comments: Children's growth is a long-term process, which requires constant encouragement and self-motivation. Exploring an advantage potential can greatly stimulate their self-confidence and self-esteem. Many children in life have some small advantages such as "being able to write their names well", but parents often ignore them. If parents want to cultivate their children's "specialties", they should pay attention to their hobbies and strengths that can be developed into "specialties", and then consciously enhance their interests in this regard.

Little John spelled a map.

The priest is preparing a sermon, but his little son is making noise. The priest was very helpless, so he picked up an old magazine, tore up a colorful illustration-a map of the world, threw it on the ground and said, "John, if you can spell this map well, I'll give you 25 cents." "The priest thinks that John needs a whole morning, so that he can calm down and think. However, within 10 minutes, my son knocked on his door with a complete map in his hand. John spelled out a map of the world so quickly that the priest was very surprised. He asked, "son, how did you put the map together so quickly?" "Ah," said little John, "it's easy. There was a photo of a person on the other side, so I put the photo of this person together and turned it over. I think if this person is correct, then this world map is correct. The priest smiled, gave his son a quarter and said to him, "Thank you! You have prepared the theme for my sermon tomorrow: If a person is right, his world will be right. "

Comments: There are many ways and methods to solve the same problem. Children's thinking is active and full of associations. They can think of many things that society can't think of. Therefore, parents should be good at grasping this characteristic of children, pay attention to the broad and flexible thinking of children, grasp the correlation between things, exercise children's divergent thinking ability, and guide children to develop continuously.

He is the cleverest boy.

Napoleon Hill, a famous successful scientist, was considered a bad boy since he was a child. The cow got lost and the tree was cut down for no reason. Everyone thinks it's him. Even his father and brother think he is not good. It is believed that the death of his mother and lack of discipline are the main reasons for Napoleon Hill's illness. Since everyone thinks so, he doesn't care. One day, my father said he would remarry, and everyone was worried that the new mother didn't know what it was like. Hill also made up his mind not to take her new mother seriously at all. The strange woman finally walked into the house. She went to every room and greeted everyone happily. When he walked towards Hill, Hill stood upright, his hands crossed on his chest, staring at her coldly, without a hint of welcome. "This is Napoleon," his father introduced, "the worst child in the family."

What Hill will never forget is what her stepmother said at that time. She put her hand on Hill's shoulder and looked at him with sparkling eyes. "The worst child?" She said, "Not at all. He is the cleverest child in the family. We should induce his nature. " The stepmother made Napoleon Hill, and she believed that he was a good boy. If you have this confidence in a person, he will succeed.

Comments: It is not that children need to appreciate, but that appreciation makes them better and better; It's not that children need to complain, but that complaining makes them worse and worse. How parents treat their children will determine their different fates. However, when children behave badly, many parents often blame and complain that their children are not good either, and rarely think about their responsibilities or find reasons for themselves. As a result, many parents have turned their lively and lovely children into people who have no ambition, no ideals, give up on themselves and spend their lives in mediocrity.

My daughter is one in a million.

The first mock exam before the college entrance examination, my daughter's performance is not ideal. She told her father sadly that the teacher asked her to calculate her ranking in the whole school, the whole district and the whole city according to her ranking in the class. The child said that if she did this, she might be suspended from college. My father immediately said, "My daughter is one in a million." The daughter is puzzled. My father then calculated an account: when I graduated from junior high school, nearly10.4 million people in the city took the senior high school entrance examination, only 30 thousand people could go to senior high school, and only a few thousand people could go to key middle schools. My daughter's academic performance has been kept within 1/3 of the class size. Isn't this one in a million? After the father finished the calculation, the child's eyes suddenly lit up and a smile broke out on his face. He jumped up and hugged his father: "Dad, your account is different from the teacher's account."

Comments: Everyone has a personality, and people are not absolutely the same. So "comparison between people" is meaningless. It is the best policy for successful parents not to talk about or blame their children's shortcomings at will, but to help them correct their shortcomings and overcome psychological obstacles in another way. Parents who know their children's psychology will compare them with a positive attitude.

8. I want to be the second Bill Gates.

In an oral English class, the teacher asked the children to tell their dreams one by one in English. Some said, I want to be a nurse; Some said, I want to be an actor; Some said, I don't want anything now; A child named Bob said loudly, I want to be the second Bill Gates. Someone whispered below: Can you do it? Whenever Bob talks about his ideal with his father, he is always full of energy and confidence. At this time, the father is also very willing to be a loyal listener and share his vision for the future with his children. Listen, my father will be moved by him in the end. (Inspirational story) Bob once scored only 69.5 points in an English exam, so that he was afraid to take out the test paper. Father didn't blame him when he knew. However, Bob was no longer interested in English for a long time. So, before going to bed every day, father and children lie in bed together and dream of each other. The father told his son that both father and mother were proud and happy that he had such a dream and believed that he would realize his dream. One day, Bob said, I must learn English well. Bill Gates' English is not a fool. Later, his father bought him an English extracurricular reading book, Bookworm, which he often read with, and encouraged him to write a short composition in English every day. After a period of persistence, his English level improved and he got full marks in the final English exam. After this incident, Bob was full of confidence in himself.

Comments: Almost every child has a good design for his future, although they don't know how difficult it is to realize their dreams. But it is undeniable that dreams have a great incentive for children's growth.

In fact, it doesn't matter whether the child's dream comes true or not. What's important is that only with dreams can children have expectations, thus enhancing their self-confidence. Even if the dream is not realized in the end, at least the child will have a good attitude and development space.

9. Serious little Tom

Three-year-old Tom likes snacks, carbonated drinks and all kinds of novel toys just like children of the same age. Mother also regards him as a child who has no sense of responsibility and can do nothing but eat and drink. However, an unexpected opportunity made her completely change this idea.

That year, Tom's family moved to a new city and Tom entered a new kindergarten. There will be a parent-teacher conference in kindergarten in two months, and Tom's mother is also invited. On the way to the kindergarten, my mother jokingly said to Tom Liu, "Son, my mother has not fully adapted to this city. In your kindergarten, my mother doesn't know anyone. Then you should help me. " "Tom said solemnly," no problem, mom. I know all the teachers and children there, including the parents who pick up their children every day. "Mom looked at him seriously and felt very fresh, but she just smiled and didn't take it to heart. When he arrived at the kindergarten, Tom began to fulfill his promise. He accompanied his mother to the conference room responsibly, introduced the principal and other teachers to her seriously, and introduced every child in the kindergarten to her seriously. Finally, he told her the children's names and who their father or mother was. Then Tom took his mother to the sofa and brought her a glass of water. Mom, you sit here first. I'm going to the bathroom. I'll be right back. "."It is because Tom's mother inadvertently respects Tom that Tom's sense of value and responsibility is aroused.

Comments: Parents often complain that their children lack a sense of responsibility. There are also some parents who think that responsibility is an adult's business. In fact, responsibility should be cultivated from an early age. A person, whether a society or a child, will be proud only if he can get the love and respect of others. In the process of guiding and flying children's dreams, it is essential to believe that children's self-awareness and self-shaping ability are essential.

10, the basic quality of a writer

Shiloh spent a long time writing a novel, and then gave it to a famous writer, hoping to get his teaching. She came to the writer's house, and the writer received her warmly. Shiloh read it to the author because his eyes were not very good. Soon, she finished reading and paused. The writer asked, "Is it over? Listen to her tone, as if eager to have the following! " Thinking of this, Shiloh was immediately inspired and replied, "No, the latter part is more exciting." So she went on reading according to her own imagination. After a while, the writer asked again, "Is it over?" Shiloh thought, "The author must be eager to hear the whole story." So she went on reading. If the sudden ringing of the telephone hadn't interrupted her, she would have been reading. The author needs to go out at once because of something. Before leaving, the writer said, "In fact, your novel should have been closed long ago. When I first asked you if it was over, it should have been. Why gild the lily? It seems that you lack the most basic quality as an author-decision. Decision is the basis of becoming a writer. How does a slow-moving work impress readers? "

Shiloh regretted after listening to the writer's words, thinking: "It seems that she is not suitable for writing, so give up and find a new direction for herself!" "After many years, Shiloh began to paint, but she still likes to write from the heart, which is her childhood dream. But I just don't have the basic quality of writing. There are really many disappointments in life. By chance, Shiloh met a more famous writer. When Shiloh talked with him about reading a novel to a writer, the writer exclaimed, "It's not easy for you to make up such a wonderful story in such a short time! This is the most basic ability that an excellent writer should have! It's a pity that you gave up writing! "

Comments: People have different views on the same thing in different eyes. Even successful people, more often, children need to believe in themselves and stick to their own path, because what others say is not necessarily correct as parents. To a great extent, it is more important to give children confidence than anything else. Beijing Aifang Education is the first special institution in China specializing in the research and education of problem teenagers. Since its establishment in 2005, Love House Education has provided programs for more than 60,000 families and provided high-quality psychological counseling, behavioral guidance and study counseling services for more than 50,000 primary and secondary school students for more than eight years. Realize the dreams of parents and children!