Have you ever learned how to educate your children about gender correctly? Equality between men and women. Parents should not blindly avoid their children's curiosity about entering this world, but should correctly educate their children about gender. I have carefully arranged for you how to carry out correct gender education for your children, hoping to help you.

How to carry out correct gender education for children 1 1. Early education.

It is better to teach early than late, and it is a better period before the age of 5. Childhood is a critical stage in the development of children's personality, temperament and gender consciousness. Children have a clear understanding of gender and should pay special attention to training. Children are innocent, so it is much better to let them know some gender knowledge earlier than to let them learn shyness and adult taboos and figure it out for themselves.

Second, it is inevitable.

In the face of children's doubts about gender, parents must correctly guide, patiently explain, don't avoid, don't deceive children. Children may ask these questions: Where was I born? Why does dad pee standing and mom pee sitting? Why can mom and dad sleep together, but I have to sleep in a room alone? Wait a minute. This is an inevitable problem in the process of children's growth. As parents, don't avoid, don't avoid, don't use "you will understand when you grow up" to fool your children, but to arouse their curiosity.

Third, we should have the concept of equality.

Parents can't let their children have gender discrimination from an early age, especially discrimination against girls. A few parents prefer sons to daughters, which makes their children feel inferior from an early age. There is also a kind of doting on boys, which is also an unequal thought. The latest research shows that boys from one-child families are generally favored by mothers, most likely gay and sissy. Preference for boys and superior family conditions are likely to lead to the phenomenon that children have vague gender cognition during this period.

How to correctly educate children about sex 2 1? Educate children in a "gender-neutral" way.

Educating children in a "gender-neutral" way can not only make them become people with multiple sexual orientations, but also make them express their feelings without hesitation, with high self-satisfaction, self-confidence and strong social adaptability. Even if you encounter problems, your attitude and skills are comprehensive. ……

2. Dad should always play with his children.

Dad usually prefers to interact with children in a "physical activity" way. No matter how busy you are, you should take time to spend with your children, complete some things with them, and find out the fun of father and son getting along. Whether you go to the park or watch a baseball game together, or even just go for a walk or ride a bike, as long as you can stay with your child for a while, it will affect his or her life. Although a man is not as sensitive to people's emotions as a woman, he is best suited to get along with children. The survey shows that the daughters of children who often get along with their fathers are more competitive or proactive than other children, and their emotional response is relatively low. Sons are richer in emotional expression and less aggressive than other children. Because dad's openness allows children to freely express their feelings reflected by instinct. Boys, in particular, need templates for emotional expression, so they need time with their fathers. Mothers are more sensitive to gender characteristics and their children tend to be more feminine and masculine. Dad, on the other hand, will not emphasize the characteristics of gender education.

It is better to exchange roles occasionally.

When a woman takes care of a child, she can understand his thoughts from the expression on his face and try to restrain herself when she is angry. These female characteristics are sensitive and warm social performances, which seem to be more suitable for taking care of family members. Men can maximize anger into explosive force and minimize the fear, sadness and pain of negative emotions, which is just suitable for social competition.

On the other hand, mothers are richer than sons in expressing their feelings for their daughters. For example, when reading Look at Pictures and Talk, they will use a lot of emotional words such as happiness, sadness and fear in order to match the situational narrative sentences in the picture, but reduce aggressive narrative. But if you read it to your son, the situation is the opposite, adding action description and reducing emotional description. For example, when telling a story, you will emphasize "beautiful princess" to your daughter and "brave boy" to your boy.

4. Without emphasizing gender, children have a broader future.

People's potential is often limited to the preset position and can't be brought into play. If psychological barriers can be eliminated, in fact, any possibility will appear. Both boys and girls can be "both civil and military" or "both rational and emotional".

If your daughter comes and asks "I'm going to play football", you should be glad that her daughter has a strong body and a healthy body, and her son suddenly says "I want to learn flower arrangement", then you should be even more glad that he has a soft heart and aesthetic consciousness.

As long as parents don't set their own limits, then you will find that there is little difference between boys and girls, because he is as competitive and emotional as she is.