The reason why it is difficult to make a choice is essentially because you have not thought clearly about your purpose.

When you go to Xinjiang, you must have company, which is not necessarily a good education.

Left-behind children are definitely lacking in love, but they may not have a good education.

The company of parents can make up for many educational deficiencies.

Left-behind children, education can not make up for the lack of love.

As a teacher, almost none of the left-behind children I have taught have good grades. Because these children don't know who to study for, they can't see their parents' happy faces. This is a child. Psychologically speaking, it is impossible for them to have the consciousness of autonomous learning before independence. Of course, poor grades are secondary, and more importantly, these children have a certain degree of defects in their general character, which will affect their lives.

Education is not only achievement, but also teaching quality. Growth is far more important than any other factor, and the companionship of parents is indispensable in growing up.

As for the survival of children, make a careful analysis. "Heaven has the virtue of living well." Everyone can live well as long as they are not lazy, even if they don't have a high degree.

Of course, this is from the level of children, from the level of parents, away from children, what is your struggle? Is it all for yourself? Can your mind be intact? Or can you promise not to regret it in the future? Adults will have such care and psychological burden, but they only choose to give up this emotion temporarily at the rational level, let alone children. Where is his concern pinned? How to reduce his psychological burden? Children can't think rationally and understand what you call giving up. For him, it can be completely understood as abandonment.

The most terrible thing is that in the end, both sides lost and got nothing, leaving only regrets and regrets.