In fact, when a child is born, it is a blank sheet of paper. What children will look like when they grow up, the most important thing is to see how parents draw this "painting".

Quiet said, "There will never be a mistake." What is wrong is that parents didn't educate their children well when they were young. Now many parents are misled by some "poisoned chicken soup" and use these "poisoned chicken soup" to educate our children.

Lily is a novice mother and knows nothing about her children's education. Usually, when she has nothing to do, she will go to see some so-called "poisoned chicken soup" recruited by the great parenting god and use these "poisoned chicken soup" to educate her children.

Recently, Lili advocates "happy education", and we all know that education at home and abroad is very different. The public schools in Europe and America that promote "happy education" are aimed at the children of workers, farmers and the unemployed. They don't pay attention to education at all and never plan a way out for their children.

Lili is also a kind of "happy education" for children now. She believes that children should grow up carefree, should not face endless homework every day, and should not study all the time.

These days, she has been very indulgent in her children's education, which has led to a sharp drop in their grades. Only then did I know that there was a big problem with my educational methods.

In fact, foreign "happy education" is only applicable to poor children. The children of the rich are studying hard, and this learning model has solidified their existing class and is difficult to change.

Therefore, parents should not use the so-called "poisoned chicken soup" to educate their children, which will only push their children to the abyss and will not make them better and better.

Three bowls of "poisoned chicken soup" ruined many babies. Do you all know parents?

1, release children's nature

Some parents think that children should be allowed to release their nature at an early age and let them do whatever they want. But this kind of education will only make children ill-bred and easy to be laughed at by others.

Some parents regard releasing their children's nature as an excuse to spoil their children. When their children do something wrong, they just say, "Children are too young to understand anything", "It's their nature, what's wrong with them, why are you aggressive" and so on.

This release of nature is not for the good of children, but for the harm of children.

Rousseau, a French educator, once said, "Do you know any way to make your children unhappy? This method is to be obedient to him. " I don't know when the release of children's nature has been understood by many parents as "regardless of interference".

Such parents, please wake up and don't let this bowl of "poisoned chicken soup" continue to poison you and your children.

2. Happy education

Some parents feel sorry for their children, and feel that their children have to face a lot of homework and cram schools every day, which is not what they should bear at a young age, so they begin to implement happy education for their children.

But it is often this happy education that makes children worse and worse.

As we said before, Lili's "happy education" for children, the final result is that children's grades have plummeted.

Children love to play when they are young and have little control over themselves. Parents indulge them, and they will do whatever they want.

Therefore, parents should not drink the bowl of "poisoned chicken soup" of Happy Education, which is not suitable for children in China in most cases.

3. Success has nothing to do with education.

In fact, many parents will say that reading is useless. Simply put, it is to tell us what is the use of a high degree and not to work for people in the future. In that case, someone will still believe it now.

Some people say that success has nothing to do with academic qualifications, and some people can succeed without studying. There will be such examples, but they are definitely few, even very few. Can you guarantee that your children are in the minority?

Children are not sensible, so parents can't be ignorant. Parents please tell their children that no one's success is accidental. If you don't suffer from studying now, you will definitely suffer more from life in the future.

Educating children means teaching them in accordance with their aptitude, not just referring to the "poisoned chicken soup" on the Internet, otherwise it will harm them.

News from Ma Jing: Children's education has always been a university issue. Parents attach great importance to their children's education. The best education for parents is to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Don't let some "poisoned chicken soup"? Poison our children.