1, pay attention to the mentality when communicating, and keep close and valued when communicating. Contemporary teenagers and children respect individuality, love self-expression and pursue new things, which parents should understand and attach importance to. When talking to children, the respect and self-control you show will eventually come into being in the process of children communicating with others.

Simple imperative sentences, sarcastic sentences and emotional catharsis sentences can only hurt children's emotions, but can't help them. Parents should learn to talk to their children with an important attitude and a calm tone. This kind of communication makes them feel that they are regarded as fair partners by their parents, which can enhance their sense of self-esteem. Then I want to show my true thoughts to my parents.

2. Communication should be fair. Many parents only know criticism, want to impose their ideas on their children, and even always compare their children with other children. Communication requires you to treat your children as good friends. Only in a fair situation will you seriously ask your child's thoughts and suggestions. Only in this way can we have business and quantity, and we can actually communicate with our children.

Rather than the credibility as a parent, it is difficult for you to listen to your child's language. Therefore, in real life, children usually communicate with their parents, have pressure at work, and feel that they have different suggestions, so they will be refuted by their parents. Therefore, the communication between children and parents is always silent, even forced to allow. Although the final conclusion is that the child is not convinced by oral administration.

3, the expression is simple and accurate, so that children can understand. As adults, some parents usually talk to their children with some very profound words, so it is difficult for children to understand. You should know that you are talking to a child, and the child's little head can't understand the deep language expression. Try to use elaborate sentences, and only express one meaning in one sentence, so that children can understand your meaning before replying to your words.

Emotional summary: Parents should learn to open their hearts to their children, let them understand your thoughts and let them express their true thoughts. Parents also need to pay attention to their children's thoughts. That is reasonable communication, and then let children get more and more sense of belonging.