Children who are not clever and sensible will have psychological problems when they grow up, because there are indeed many children who are naturally clever and obedient, kind and willing to cooperate with others. This problem is more about a phenomenon: there are many clever and sensible children in life, and they are more likely to have psychological problems when they grow up.

Parental expectations

Parents, or the main caregivers, mostly prefer their children to be obedient, because bringing such children is very worry-free and easy to get praise from the outside world.

Put on a mask

Under the coercion and inducement of parents, most children learn to wear a mask of obedience and understanding. A lovely mask will win him praise from the outside world, but what is suppressed under the mask is the unmet needs and unrecognized wishes of children.

Self-growth problem

Children who grow up like this will inevitably encounter the problem of self-growth.

Free growth

I hope every child doesn't need to wear masks and bulletproof vests. I hope every child can grow up freely and experience the blooming of personality.