Parental expectations
Parents, or the main caregivers, mostly prefer their children to be obedient, because bringing such children is very worry-free and easy to get praise from the outside world.
Put on a mask
Under the coercion and inducement of parents, most children learn to wear a mask of obedience and understanding. A lovely mask will win him praise from the outside world, but what is suppressed under the mask is the unmet needs and unrecognized wishes of children.
Self-growth problem
Children who grow up like this will inevitably encounter the problem of self-growth.
Free growth
I hope every child doesn't need to wear masks and bulletproof vests. I hope every child can grow up freely and experience the blooming of personality.