The "gentleman education" implemented in Guangzhou middle schools is not so much etiquette and behavior education, but actually moral education and emotional intelligence education, so that they can develop gentlemanly manners, cultivate gentlemanly temperament, and improve their communication level and ability to interact with others. There is a saying: "bearing determines the pattern, details determine success or failure, and emotional intelligence determines fate." Naturally, a modest gentleman who does things properly is more likely to make more friends and have a better future and a successful life.

There is a cloud in the Book of Changes: "Modest gentleman, modest and self-grazing." This tells people that virtuous people always surrender their virtues and cultivate themselves with humility. Even in a humble position, you can restrain yourself with a modest attitude; Don't relax morally because of your inferiority complex. Zhuge Liang, the famous minister of the Three Kingdoms, said: "A gentleman's trip is quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality, and indifferent to inaction."