The atmosphere of a family is the core of children's growth, and parents are the bond of children's growth. As far as children's education is concerned, family education is far greater than school education, and family education is a necessary condition for a child's growth and success. But it is difficult for many families to do so, and sometimes they shirk their responsibilities.

There is a typical phenomenon that some parents always like to complain to their children. For example, if the child doesn't do well this time, blame the child with bad words. "Other people's children got full marks in this exam. See if you failed the exam again.

However, the results of complaints and criticisms often make children hate learning more, and even adolescent children will resist, making children farther and farther away from you and deviant. This may be a problem faced by all parents.

So how to create a good family environment for children to change their children? Excellent parents have three important aspects in raising their children: companionship, reading and habit!

Self-cultivation of excellent parents: three keys to cultivate excellent children: companionship, reading and habit.

Being with children: shaping children's good qualities and correct values.

The influence of parents is accompanied by children's life, and good parents can always take time out to accompany their children to learn and grow in life. (family).

A child's most important growth stage needs his mother's company, and early childhood is the most important stage to shape his character. Parents should teach their children kindness, courage, cooperation, perseverance and correct values at this stage.

I remember my child cried every time he wanted to eat when he was a child, and his mother went to get him food. (william shakespeare's Hamlet and Family) I said to him, "Do you know what patience is? He said, "I don't know." I said to him, "don't cry when mom brings you food." "

In fact, one sentence can teach children a lot. In the process of this dialogue, let the children know to wait and know what persistence is, so that the children will not cry because of waiting.

In fact, in daily life, we can guide children in this way and gradually understand the world. In the process of companionship, parents can teach him perseverance, courage, kindness, modesty and other qualities.

Parents should guide their children to have good quality in the process of accompanying their children. Parents are originals and children are copies. 90% of all the qualities of children are copied from their parents. Parents should set a good example for their children in the process of daily companionship and influence their children in an orderly way, which is temporary for their future growth.