At the end of last year, when he was a senior one, he won the lifelong honor of the world memory master, which is worth recording and celebrating. Share our experience here.
Let me start with myself. I have passed the age of confusion, and it seems that I have been labeled with some bad labels. When I was studying, I was nicknamed "Phil". I was once called "careless" and "shopaholic" by my son in his composition. In recent years, I have been "forgetful" and "the king of procrastination". I have been trying to tear off these labels through continuous learning and hoard countless classes. Most of the courses have been shelved, and a few of the courses I am studying have hardly gained anything because of my poor learning ability. The more you learn, the more you feel that your learning ability is low, and the more you learn, the more anxious you are. In reality, I have been frustrated again and again. I have been retiring in a small county and small unit on the 18 line, and my life is clear at a glance. I used to think that my life as a middle-aged greasy woman might not turn over. However, it finally ushered in a turning point at the end of last year. Because I pinned my hopes on my child and guided him in the right way, he won the title of world memory master, and my label finally became "master mother"
I ran with you all the way and learned a lot about family education, but I have great confidence in family education.
Pictures of children are displayed in the big publicity window on campus.
My child is really an ordinary child with no extraordinary talent. We live in a small county town and have no high-quality educational resources. When he grew up, he went to the provincial capital to take the entrance examination. There are dozens of gaps between mathematics and others, so naturally I didn't get in. For better educational resources, I gritted my teeth and chose a new private school in the city. The tuition fee is 18,000 yuan per year. Children's entrance scores are more than 100, and they are slowly among the best in the first and second grades, but they are not stable in the third grade, and the grade ranking fluctuates between 50 and 20.
Our parent-child relationship once fell to freezing point when the child was in the first grade. The fuse was that I sent his diary of missing teachers and classmates to the parents of the class. I thought he wouldn't know about it, but I didn't expect his classmates to blend in with the parents and eventually spread to his ears, and the harmonious parent-child relationship disappeared. Then there is the rebellious period of youth, and everything parents do is wrong. When they got home, they locked themselves in their rooms and didn't communicate with us at all, and the ice inside became thicker and thicker. Thanks to the convenience of online learning, I found the family education of the tree of life in confusion. Studying in the tree of life is an ice-breaking journey for me and my children. The warm lesson of the tree of life opened the knot between us and melted the inner ice. Now that he is a freshman, we will go back to our childhood intimacy.
In the second year of junior high school, I met Zhou Qiang, the founder of Memory Nine, online. His three experiences and lessons opened my eyes. This is a good memory method. I think memory is the foundation of all learning. Mastering magical memory methods will definitely improve learning efficiency.
I enrolled my children in nine special online training camps, hoping they can learn. Unexpectedly, I shaved my head and picked up the burden. The children were ungrateful and unwilling to learn. It was during his rebellious youth that he could do nothing without learning from me. He didn't learn from me, and as a result, my study was still very low, and my classmates' memories soared at the same time, while my memory was still my nephew who played lanterns-or that (uncle). Others would never forget anything, and I always forgot everything. My poor memory was often despised by my friends.
/kloc-In August of 0/7, my child finally agreed to let me travel to Dalian, and at the same time participated in the four-day and three-night special training camp held by Teacher Zhou Qiang in Dalian. But he is still not interested, just deal with me to finish my studies, and then go home and throw it away, which is of no help to his study. There are also several aunts in their fifties, the oldest being 72 years old. White-haired and careful notes perfectly explain that it is never too old to learn, which is an example for me to learn.
At the same time, I made up my mind to let my children attend the 2 1 day disciple class in Zhou Qiang in the second year. However, my child is in the third year of high school for a whole year. As long as I make this request, he will definitely refuse strongly and even cry with me. I can only give up first, but I am determined to let him learn to solve it with curves. So I first put down my thoughts and used the family education concept of the tree of life series I learned: home is a warm harbor; Help children find a good feeling; Share without teaching, invite without asking; Clap if you do it right, and don't blame if you do it wrong; Care without interference, respect without indulgence, help without substitution, invite without request. Let our parent-child relationship return from his confrontation with us in the second day of junior high school to a harmonious parent-child relationship.
18 After his senior high school entrance examination in summer vacation, I took him to almost all famous schools in Sichuan and Chongqing, including Chengdu No.4 Middle School, Chengdu Experimental Foreign Language School, Mianyang Middle School, Chongqing No.1 Middle School, Chongqing Bashu Middle School and Chongqing Yucai Middle School. As a result, it failed because of poor strength.
At this time, I advised him to join the disciple class, and he finally agreed. In exchange, I agreed that he would go to Australia alone.
When I first entered the camp, I cried to go home a few days ago, and even moved out of my grandmother as a rescuer to put pressure on me. At this time, I resolutely disagreed and cut him off. He can only learn from scratch, but he forgot the most basic code he learned last summer vacation. At first, compared with other students, he was hit hard. Fortunately, he adjusted his mentality. After a few days, he finally saw the results and found the feeling. From the initial strong rejection to the gradual liking, he even said that he had met once, and finally understood that there was no memory genius, only memory methods. During his study, he also made friends with a group of world memory masters (many teaching assistants in his class are memory masters trained by Zhou Qiang), which is a rich personal resource for him.
It is precisely because he can quickly remember poker in one minute that he finally realized his dream-Chongqing No.8 Middle School, a famous school in Chongqing. At the end of September, he participated in the city race of the World Memory Championship in Guiyang, winning the junior champion, 7 gold medals and 2 silver medals.
After that, he went to Beijing to participate in the China World Memory Championship, where experts gathered. Finally, he entered the China national team, participated in the 27th World Memory Championship Global Finals held in Hongkong, and won the title of World Memory Master in one fell swoop. At one time, the media rushed to report that he remembered a deck of poker for 32 seconds.
His achievement is the result of mastering the correct methods and persisting in hard practice. Behind the honor are sweat and tears. He traveled to Australia alone and participated in competitions in Guiyang, Beijing, Hong Kong and other places. His self-reliance also made me very pleased.
In an interview with Chongqing TV, he said that the significance of the master of world memory lies in tempering his will and mentality. Ordinary people can have extraordinary memories through systematic study. Choice is greater than effort. Without my choice and persistence, he would still be an ordinary student in a small western county, and would not have such a high pattern and future. With this certificate as a stepping stone, his ideal is not limited to 985, 2 1 1 universities in China, and he may attack international famous schools like his brothers and sisters who went to France and Australia, increasing the possibility, diversity and excitement of life.
Unexpectedly, he made no achievements in his study, but pretended to be diligent and was seen by his children and became his role model. I almost burst into tears when I heard him tell the teacher that his mother was his role model. Third-rate parents are nannies, second-rate parents are coaches, and first-rate parents are role models. This is the best comment I have ever heard from children.
I don't want to show off how good my children are. On the contrary, I know that he is really an ordinary child. Only by following the right teacher and finding the right platform can we achieve our present achievements.
Parents' words and deeds are the best education for children, and family education is very important for children. Let's all be smart and learned parents. There are so many online learning courses that people are dazzled, and I also signed up for many classes at will. In reality, there are many experts, but few experts, so we must recommend two famous teachers, Zhou Qiang, who has recited nine paragraphs, and Zhang Jia tian teacher, the family teacher of the Tree of Life. Even if I am a soft writer, this is a tangible achievement that children have made after learning. Only by learning from fruitful people can we avoid detours and spend our limited time and energy on trial and error, and our children's tomorrow will be better.
There is no memory genius, only memory methods! The brain learning center allows the right way to insert flying wings for children!