1, let children learn to stand on their own feet: the ability to face and solve problems independently is the survival ability that everyone in modern society must have, and it is also the basic ability that individuals must have to face life and career, which needs to be cultivated from an early age.

2. Set a good example for children: example is more important than words. Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. If parents don't like studying, but only care about eating, drinking and having fun, they don't know anything, have bad conduct, are vulgar, selfish and don't respect the elderly. No matter what parents say or do is right or wrong, it has a profound influence on children. Therefore, parents should always show themselves everywhere in their daily lives.

3. The expectations of children should be in line with the actual level of children: when parents educate their children, it is best not to expect too much, because sometimes the greater the expectations of parents, the greater the pressure, and the children will continue to work hard to meet their parents' expectations. During this period, it is very likely that children will lose themselves and even lead to mental illness.