First, it's not that I don't have psychological problems, but that I don't know I have psychological problems.

It's good to be healthy in those days. Who cares if you have psychological problems? And psychological problems are often not easy to detect unless they are particularly serious. Unlike physical problems that can be seen by naked eyes or instruments, as long as they have no appearance or the parties themselves don't admit it, they won't cause people's discovery at all.

Second, it is true that there are no psychological problems, but this does not mean that there is no problem with rough beating and scolding education.

There is no denying that every child has different characteristics. It is indeed possible to have children who are tougher, thicker-skinned and broader-minded. He is often beaten and scolded, still alive and kicking, and his mental health is positive. But this is only a part of children, and it may not be negatively affected by beating and cursing. This does not mean that beating and scolding education will not bring negative effects to all children, nor does it mean that beating and scolding education is correct. Even this part of the healthy children, we only saw that he was beaten and scolded, but we didn't see that he might have been educated by the educated members in other ways (such as gentleness and encouragement).

Thirdly, I had psychological problems, but after self-adjustment and good education, I made up with my parents in the past and successfully got rid of them. This kind of person who comes out of the psychological shadow will definitely not be educated in the education of children. Because they know its harmfulness best.

It is mainly because the living environment and education level of the elders at that time were far from the present, so it is normal to show different psychological States, and there is not much comparability.