I once read a story in which a woman writer's son told her mother a plan to travel to Japan. Her mother didn't take it seriously and thought her son was whimsical. The son was not discouraged, insisted on his own opinions and contributions, and finally won the creative silver award, which surprised his mother.

I was shocked by his autonomy. Yes, spontaneous children are like this. They don't mind others' comments on their creativity. The most important thing is to try according to your own wishes, no matter whether it is successful or not, as long as you try, it is equivalent to accumulating some wealth for your child's life.

The book says: "The formation of any habit is inseparable from conscious and spontaneous consciousness." Indeed, for a student, wisdom is not enough, but also self-discipline. No ability, behavior or habit is perfect, what's more, children's knowledge, experience and experience are very limited. Even if they have spontaneous good habits, there will inevitably be some misunderstandings. Therefore, when cultivating spontaneous children, children should really understand the connotation of spontaneity.

Only in this way can we shape a perfect spontaneous child. A famous person once said, "Jealousy is a tumor of the soul." Psychology believes that jealousy is a complex emotion of dissatisfaction, unhappiness, shame and resentment, which is buried in psychological torture and manifested as jealousy of others. The root of jealousy is selfishness, and the existence of jealousy actually reflects that children have a self-centered luxury, which is not good for their healthy growth. The "Lugang incident" is well known, and in the whole incident.

Lu Gang lost his mind in the fire of jealousy, which eventually led to a bloody case. If Lu Gang has formed the habit of spontaneity in his daily life, he will take the initiative to find his own shortcomings in the face of his own difficulties, instead of putting the blame on others. In the face of such a tragic event, there is nothing we can do but advise you not to be jealous.