At eight o'clock this morning, I read the Personality Education for Primary and Secondary School Students taught by Dr. Yu Dan, and I was deeply touched. If you have seen it, it must be very strange. This is a lecture for parents to educate their children. How can you feel as a child? Because I see my own shortcomings. This lecture is divided into four lectures, which I can summarize as four points: setting goals; Inconsistency, the correct guidance of losing temper; Learn to be grateful: resist setbacks. The third and fourth lectures impressed me the most. The third lecture is about how parents teach their children to be grateful. Teacher Yu Dan talked about Confucius' disciples asking Confucius what filial piety is. Confucius only said two words, and the color is hard to let go. It means that we should give our parents a good look despite all the difficulties, but what about us now? On the contrary, being a parent is too difficult, and we need to take a good look. In the coming society, you have the habit of losing your temper, but your former parents have become colleagues, bosses and even strangers, and they will not give in to you, which shows the importance of controlling your emotions. The fourth lecture talked about the importance of resisting setbacks. Teacher Yu Dan's favorite flower basket was broken and her daughter burst into tears. Teacher Yu Dan mended the broken basket with colored paper. It looks better than before. His daughter smiled through tears and learned that crying is the most incompetent performance. That's my understanding. It doesn't matter if you encounter setbacks, it is terrible to be discouraged. Even if you encounter a big setback, it is not the end, but like a cicada, it is the beginning of transformation. Although metamorphosis is very painful, it can be exchanged for free flight, and so can setbacks! In the future, I will overcome the main symptoms of modern children pointed out by teacher Yu Dan and be a healthy and positive self.