Yu said that future-oriented education must cultivate children's three abilities.
1, independent ability
When children are young, many parents try their best to give their children the best life, reluctant to let their children suffer and help them arrange everything.
Send children to school, carry schoolbags for children, and write down what children in homework help want to eat, so that children can enjoy the care of their parents at ease. Children grow up to be selfish, lazy, irresponsible and ungrateful.
Spoiling children will bring endless troubles. Parents should learn to let go, let their children do what they can, and let their children gradually learn to be independent. In this way, children will grow up both in study and in life.
Cultivating children's independent ability requires parents to give timely and necessary guidance and help in daily life.
2. Ability to study hard
Liu Yuanyuan, the winner of the second season of anhui tv's Super Speaker, is a graduate student of Peking University Law Department. Her family is not rich, and her parents have no chance to study, but her parents taught her the importance of reading since she was a child.
Study hard, and you will have more choices in the future. You can choose meaningful and time-consuming work instead of being forced to make a living.
Please tell your children that reading is the cheapest way to change their destiny. Reading is not bitter, but life is bitter.
3. The ability to love
In "Grandma Comes", mom and dad take their grandmother with Alzheimer's disease to take care of her. At first, the children hated grandma very much and hoped that their parents would take her back to their hometown to live. The child's father said: no, grandma is his mother, and it is his responsibility to take care of her. This is an example of education.
Only a child who is nourished by love can have the ability to love. The best education parents can give their children is to let them learn to love others.
Let children learn to love and care for others. This kind of love and dedication will make children gain invisible love.
Parents need to cultivate their children into caring people from an early age. In this way, no matter whether the child enters the campus or the society, his future road will be smoother.
In order to make children better and better, parents should let their children learn to be independent, study hard and love others.