The influence of parental education on children and how parental education should cut into children's growth are mainly done from the following aspects.
First, the influence of parental education on children.
1. Shaping social skills
Children's growth can not be separated from the family environment, and family emotional relations and daily communication play a vital role in children's growth. Defining family roles, supporting children to establish good interpersonal relationships and respecting each other on the Internet can often help children adapt to the school and social environment, enhance their social skills and make them get along more harmoniously with others.
Help shape your personality.
Parents have a profound influence on their words and deeds. For example, parents who are positive, thinking, believing and responsible can not only help their children cultivate a good personality, but also guide their children to learn, imagine the future and inspire them to become a person who contributes to society.
3. Enhance outlook on life and values
Parental education helps children form stable values, including understanding of wealth, affection and interpersonal relationships. In the future, children will constantly improve their outlook on life through study, reading and socializing, constantly expand their value discrimination, and form a complete outlook on life.
4. Form a learning attitude
Parents have a very important influence on children's learning methods and habits. Good study habits and good study methods have become an important cornerstone for children to become adults in the future, and only these parents can gradually pass them on to their children. Through parents' guidance and care for children, children can find suitable learning methods and adapt to the new environment as soon as possible.
Second, how should parents educate their children?
1. Establish a sound family structure
Family is a unique social environment created by parents and children. Let children know the division of roles of family members, the coordination of responsibilities and interests in the family, and excellent family traditions and values, which can promote their healthier and more comprehensive development.
Give intellectual support
Encourage children to get in touch with a wider range of ideas and cultures, gain warmth, ability and knowledge through other channels, and build confidence and execution for success. Respect children, promote communication between children and parents, and improve children's self-awareness and social adaptability.
3. Establish a learning mechanism
According to children's interests and advantages, we can understand the environment around children, reduce the pressure of learning, and form an elite learning model to strengthen the learning effect in order to achieve high scores. At the same time, establish a good and happy family atmosphere, so that children can be fully taken care of at home, gain enough sense of security and belonging, and gradually become a responsible person.
Parents' education plays a vital role in children's growth. The educational style and style of a family often have a far-reaching impact on children's personality, studies and interpersonal relationships.
I know a child whose parents attach great importance to his academic performance, supervise him to finish his homework every day, and even arrange extra cram schools for him. Although the child's academic performance has been very good, but introverted, not good at communicating with people, dealing with interpersonal relationships. Later, his parents began to realize this problem and began to try to change the way of education. They began to encourage children to participate in some social activities, encourage him to make more friends with his peers, take him to some interesting places, and expose him to different cultures and people. Through these changes, children's personality gradually becomes cheerful and their interpersonal skills have been improved.
Parents' education plays a decisive role in children's growth, which is related to the development of children's life. Having a good family education can not only improve children's lives, but also promote family harmony and happiness, which is also of far-reaching significance to social development.