In China, many families have a family style. Of course, my family is no exception. But my family motto is only one sentence: filial piety comes first, and filial piety comes first.
My parents taught me to be filial to my parents and to respect the old and love the young since I was a child. At the same time, they themselves are setting an example for me with practical actions:
Once, my family had a little dispute over insurance. Everyone has a different opinion. Just then, dad decided to listen to his grandparents. Why? In dad's words, this is filial piety first, which means to follow the old people appropriately and make them happy. If there is no shun, where can there be filial piety?
Grandparents are old, and sometimes it is inevitable that there will be some minor contradictions. When this happens, mom and dad always patiently persuade and never contradict. Although what they sometimes say is unreasonable, mom and dad didn't mean to blame them.
Mom and dad often say: mom and dad call, you shouldn't be slow, your parents should be careful, and you shouldn't be lazy. ? This means that parents call and promise quickly; Parents have orders to do it quickly.
I remember that one winter, my father was busy repairing the heating when a phone call suddenly came. After picking it up, my father hurried out. I thought to myself:? What is more important than fixing the heating? As soon as my father came back, I asked him, Dad, what did you do just now? I went to your grandmother's house. Your grandmother's radio is broken. I helped fix it. ? I was confused. Is grandma's radio more important than fixing the heating? You know, my sister will be very cold in winter without heating. And then mom told me? Parents call, should not go slow, parents point, don't be lazy. ? This sentence, I just suddenly realized.
Disciples Rules also said:? What a person loves can be done. ? You are talking about family love, so you should try your best to fight for it. Speaking of which, I think of my cousin Zhuang Zhuang, who is 9 years old this year. That day, he and his grandmother went to the market. Grandma took a fancy to a sweater, which is worth 90 yuan. Grandma said it was too expensive to buy. So Zhuang Zhuang saved 35 yuan's pocket money every month, and his family occasionally gave him a few yuan. Within two months, I saved more than 90 yuan. He gave grandma 90 yuan money and bought her the sweater she had long wanted. That's what I said. I am willing to do what I want to do.
All virtues, filial piety first, filial piety first, is my family motto, so will I? Parents call, should not go slow, parents point, don't be lazy; What a person loves can be done. ? As my family motto. From today on, I must firmly remember these words. From now on, be a filial and grateful person.
This is my family style, which is the best in my heart. I must tell my classmates that we can all become outstanding teenagers in the new era!
Wonderful speech on family style II
? The famous writer Lao She once wrote in the article My Mother:? From private schools to primary schools and middle schools, I have experienced at least dozens of teachers, some of whom have a great influence on me, and some have no influence at all. However, my real teacher, the teacher who inherits my personality, is my mother. My mother can't read What she gave me was the education of life. ? Whenever I read this meaningful passage, what do I think? Life education? ? I don't understand, but I can feel my son's sincere gratitude to his mother. Thanks to his mother for giving him a mirror, family style is affecting his life growth.
I am very grateful to my mother for bringing me into this world, and I am even more grateful to my dear father, grandfather and grandmother for providing me with a good tutor environment, so that I can grow up happily, happily and healthily in a harmonious atmosphere.
I have a good grandmother and a good mother. I remember when I was a child, my grandmother and mother always got up early and worked hard to wash and cook for me and run a small vegetable garden. I learned hard work from them. I started washing socks and underwear by hand at the age of three. When I grew up, I gradually learned to help my mother sweep the floor, fold clothes and fry simple dishes. I feel extremely happy every time I finish these things.
Grandpa is a policeman and dad is an engineer. They seldom have time to rest. Every Saturday, I go to the Children's Palace to study, and my mother always accompanies me. I often ask my mother: Why don't grandpa and dad go with me? Don't they love me? ? My mother always smiles and says to me:? They love you more than anyone, son. Dad and grandpa want to accompany you, too. You need them, but more people need him. The company has a lot of things to do. Dad and grandpa are such people, who are serious and responsible in their work and have a strong sense of responsibility. They go out early and come back late every day for the sake of the unit and the whole family. Influenced by them, I am also doing my class work with my heart. Tell you, this semester, I was also rated as? Outstanding young cadres? ..... How?
I am extremely proud to have a good father and a loving mother at home. Their words and deeds have a subtle influence on me, allowing me to make continuous progress and thrive. Remember the family style: hardworking, brave, practical, considerate and grateful to others. I believe I will continue to practice and inherit in my later life, and use my practical actions to infect people around me, civilized classes and civilized society!
Wonderful speech on family style 3
Family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. Family life style and cultural atmosphere constitute the family style. Roland, a famous French writer, once said: Life is not an individual that can grow in isolation. As it grows, it collects flowers and leaves along the way. It is also like a sensitive camera, recording what you see and hear along the way. Every minute and inch of daily life is a fiber that weaves individuality. Everyone's words and deeds in the environment are building materials that are integrated into the growth process, infecting this person's thoughts, feelings and behaviors and affecting this person's attitude towards life. The influence of the environment on a person, in addition to tangible imitation, is more important to intangible shaping. ? This also shows the importance of family style.
A good family style is a school. Because although family style is intangible and potential, it has a great influence on children. Is it not only a subtle education for children's growth, but also a standardized behavior for children? Regulator? Is it natural to cultivate children's moral sentiments? Furnace? Edward and Zuk in the United States have two families, and the family tradition has been passed down to eight generations. Edward is a learned philosopher, studious and rigorous, which sets a good example for his children. Among his descendants, 13 is the president of a university, 100 is a professor, 80 is a writer, 60 is a doctor, 1 is a vice-president, 1 is an ambassador and 20 is a member of parliament. Zuk is a famous drunkard and gambler, who is cynical, muddleheaded and idle all his life. Among his descendants, more than 300 were beggars and vagrants, more than 400 were disabled or died prematurely because of alcoholism, more than 60 were guilty of fraud and theft, and 7 were murderers. In short, they have no future. The family styles of the two families have a subtle influence on the generations to come, from son to grandson, from generation to generation, and children and grandchildren interact with each other, constantly developing towards the two poles on the social stage. Therefore, the quality of family style directly determines the success of children.
What is my family style? Advocate democratic and equal consultation? . The important foundation of a good family style is unity, equality and harmonious family relations. If the family relationship is not normal, blame each other, complain and fight, children will feel cold, cold and hostile, leaving a painful scar in their hearts. Therefore, family members should respect and understand each other, live in harmony, care for each other and love each other. Parents should be good at adjusting and controlling their emotions and try not to quarrel in front of their children; We should carry forward democracy, actively listen to children's opinions and negotiate on an equal footing; Under the correct guidance of adults, let children grow up freely; Cheerful and optimistic play with children makes the family full of fun. Create a harmonious family environment for children and let them grow up healthily in harmonious, warm and caring interpersonal relationships.
Family style is the main theme of a family, and it is also the concrete embodiment of family members' personality, cultural accomplishment, moral sentiment and interpersonal relationship. Family style is like spring rain, moistening things silently. To form a good family style, parents have to start from themselves. I think what I have done better is to practice swimming and calligraphy with my children when they are in primary school, constantly improve their parenting quality, and at the same time strive to turn their home into a successful school.
Family style and school spirit affect us together, let us move towards our own goals and have good character. We also influence others with our own good character. Family style and school spirit, let's ride the wind and waves, take? Wind? And long.