Mother panda's frustration education for baby panda is that when the baby wants to climb high, she pushes the baby down again and again, which is actually very common in nature. Almost all animals will give their babies this kind of frustration education in order to train their survival skills.
Some children are afraid to ask adults for rejection, some children don't like competition for fear of losing, and some children don't like to show themselves for fear of not denying? All these show that the child's adversity quotient is insufficient. The so-called adversity quotient is the ability to deal with adversity. Adversity quotient can be cultivated after tomorrow, and frustration education is one of the ways to improve adversity quotient.
As parents, we must plan for their children's long-term, because we can't be their umbrella forever. The best love we can give our children is to give them energy, so that they have enough ability to live in the future society and face all difficulties with a strong heart without being crushed. This is what parents should do, not just protect. It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. We should not be an umbrella, but give them the ability.
It is common for children to be bullied, isolated or laughed at by classmates on campus. Even when we are young, these things happen to us, which seems to be inevitable in every era. If a child's adversity quotient is not high, he will feel ashamed and sad, which will lead to his dislike of learning and school, and finally lead to a decline in academic performance. Children with high adversity quotient will refuse when they are hurt and will not let themselves continue to be hurt.
In our time, parents may not know this, but since we are parents, we must educate our children about setbacks, so that when they encounter these difficulties, they can solve them with confidence and strength, instead of just silently enduring them and letting those injuries torment themselves for a long time.
Frustration education is not a blind attack on children. In this respect, everyone should study hard, and can't blindly give children setbacks, otherwise it will be counterproductive and hit their hearts and self-esteem. Therefore, while educating children, parents' learning is also very important. Education is also the process of parents' learning.