1, create a good living environment for children.

2. Be a good example for children's lifelong growth.

3, put down the parents' shelf and treat children equally.

4. Trust children and be their good friends.

5, always treat children with a gentle attitude.

6. Open your heart to your children.

7. Everything should be discussed with children.

8. Share joys and sorrows with children.

9. Pay attention to the tone of speaking with children.

While parents are busy making a living, they must take time to learn more about their children, communicate with their children, nannies and teachers, and try to fully grasp their children's performance in school and family. The more you know, the less you misunderstand. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, he will know more about how to guide the child.

10, encourage children to speak their inner thoughts.

1 1, listen to the child's implication.

12, don't talk to children in a commanding tone.

13, respect children's secrets and personal privacy.

14, respect children's personal interests.

15, respect children's ideals and pursuits.

16, respect children's wishes and ideas.

Some parents often set standards for their children that they can't do. You know, it is normal for children to be young, active, stubborn and forgetful. If parents really want to make demands on their children, they should also consider their growth. Don't always look at their performance with a magnifying glass.

17, respect children's rights.

18, respect children's personal dignity.

19, respect children's friends.

20. Discover and amplify the advantages of children.

2 1, never say anything that hurts children.

Don't nag in front of the children.

24. Look at the problem from the child's perspective.

25. Use communication to enter the child's inner world.

26. When communicating with children, listen more and speak less.

28. Don't blame your child in an authoritative tone.

29. Be considerate of children from the details of life.

30. Let children feel deep love.

3 1, tolerate the child's fault.

32. tolerate the shortcomings of children.

33. Understand the child's bad temper.

34. Spend more time with your children.

35. Don't expect too much from your child.

36. Don't play the child's "supervisor".

37. Let children make their own decisions.

38. Give children free time.

Don't turn your home into a rigid classroom.

40. Give children room for free development.

4 1, allowing children to lose their temper.

42. Don't rush to correct your child's "out of line"

43. Don't compete with rebellious children.

44. Never use corporal punishment on children.

45. Don't treat children rudely and arbitrarily.

Those children who have been beaten and scolded, with the growth of age, can no longer see the scars on their bodies. But in their hearts, there are still traces of being beaten as a child, and the consequence is that they have no confidence in themselves and feel inexplicable guilt. This kind of guilt will have different manifestations: aggressive personality, difficult to get along with others, or irresponsible work.

Appreciate children's efforts and diligence.

47. Praise children in time.

48. Reasonable rewards and punishments for children.

49. Praise your child in front of others.

50. Click on the child's shortcomings with praise.

5 1, affirming the child's "rebellion".

52. Don't threaten children.

53. Encourage children in a timely and flexible manner.

54. Affirm and appreciate children's bright spots.

55. Don't blame the children blindly.

56. Don't make negative predictions about children.

57. Don't compare children with others casually.

58, more guidance, less control.

59. communicate with children with small notes.

60. Don't impose harsh conditions on children.