Nowadays, the competition in this society is too fierce, which leads many parents to hope that their children can become talents early and surpass others at the starting line. As a result, many so-called enlightenment education and advanced education began to have a market. These enlightenment education and advanced education are essentially one thing, that is, to advance the process of education, such as teaching children the knowledge of grade one in kindergarten and teaching the things of grade four and five in grade one or two. So are these advanced education effective? How should parents overcome the anxiety of educating their children? In my opinion, these advanced education not only have no effect, but also may affect children's normal cognitive process and lead to cognitive impairment. There is an objective law in the development of human intelligence, and no one can violate this objective law. Children only have that level of cognition. If you insist on forcing him to accept and absorb knowledge, then the child will naturally resist. Over time, children will become unwilling to learn and find it difficult to learn. This is a devastating blow to the healthy growth of children. Various advanced education courses are dizzying, and what is the final effect? In fact, in order to promote these courses, many educational institutions will fabricate a set of educational theories, claiming that children will not lose at the starting line, and advanced education can make children become prodigies. All these theories are untenable. Their purpose is to make parents feel anxious and eager to instill unnecessary knowledge in their children. Learning was originally a happy thing, but advanced education has turned it into a painful thing. In fact, higher education has existed for a long time, but it is only suitable for a small number of real geniuses. When parents find that their children's cognitive level is advanced, advanced education will come in handy. If their children are just ordinary children, then parents had better give their children something step by step, without any advance education.