Nowadays, with the continuous progress of social civilization and more advanced training forms, parents now have very different educational methods from their previous parents. Many parents educate their children by preaching, and most of them are taught orally. The previous educational concept of "dutiful son comes out of the stick" has also been abandoned. As long as parents adopt outrageous educational ideas, they can hear a lot of voices in society: "It is illegal to beat children" and so on.

Many educational models are telling parents that beating and scolding children will stimulate their healthy growth and will bring psychological blows to children. It is this common didactic education method that makes many parents' "good children" become "Xiong Haizi", and parents dare not even think about it. However, they don't know where this long-troubled problem actually appears.

(1) Bonzi education has its unique function.

Children should be reprimanded for disobedience. In the process of children's growth, parents should not only provide love, but also let children pay attention to respect and awe. When a child touches the bottom line of being a man, mom and dad should severely punish the child, so that she can remember for a long time and understand her worries and fears. This may be a better concept of taking care of children.

Experts in Li Meijin once said that "beating and scolding education" did not affect their psychological progress, because in a family, besides love, there should be respect, first "fear" and then "respect".

For you, it's not that mom and dad can beat and scold their children at will, nor that they can't beat and scold, but it depends on the situation. When children make "irreparable mistakes" and touch the bottom line of life, "beating and scolding education" is a better educational concept.

(2) Children are too "bad" and need a certain degree of "stick education"

If children are spoiled at home since childhood and have never been beaten at all, then when they see difficulties in adulthood, they always fantasize about hiding in the arms of their parents. But how long can mom and dad let him hide? If a child has never been beaten and scolded by his parents, he will never grow up and will not be able to face those difficulties and shocks by himself.

However, many parents complain that the more I hit the children, the more they resist. Therefore, when parents educate their children with sticks, they must think about grasping a degree. Instead of blindly hitting the child hard, it is better to let the child bear it at the moment of hitting the child. In addition, within this tolerance, children can get a far-reaching education.

Cudgel education is not only a simple beating of children, but also the best and most effective communication with children at the moment of beating them. Only through communication can children truly remember education and sincerely admit their mistakes. Although stick education plays a certain role in children's education, parents should grasp the standards well and not be extreme, which will cause a double blow to children's body and mind.

(3) Stick education should not be too harsh, and parents should grasp the degree.

So, for you, the so-called stick education is not just about hitting children with sticks. For you, mom and dad must understand this truth, that is, to grasp this degree. Only when this degree is correct can stick education be implemented correctly, but hitting children is not blind. Only in this way can parents educate an excellent child.

Excessive fetters are called "abuse" and excessive indulgence is called "spoil". The process of children's growth is also the process of parents' continuous learning. In the process of educating children, it is not a simple matter to choose the right balance. Therefore, in the process of children's growth, please ask parents to formulate a system and guidelines for their children. When children touch the requirements, it is not the best policy to use "beating and scolding education" appropriately. One day, children will feel the beauty brought by this educational concept.