"People have different' most important' at different stages of life. When you are a parent, educating your children is the "most important" of all your things! When educating their children, parents must study, observe, think and practice, discover the rules and be proactive. Wake up now, act now and win in the future! The pursuit of all-round development education is to aim at more dimensional goals with richer means, to integrate into life more deeply, and to cultivate children's all-round development in mind, intelligence and body. Management means ignoring, teaching means not teaching, and we educate our children now that we ignore and will not teach in the future. Educating children is the most important thing. Seriously educating children can certainly achieve results, and educating children can also be very happy. " Every time I read this sentence, it is a reflection and encouragement to me.
In the past two years, I have never bought her a set of study materials, and I have never forced her to do any homework other than the homework assigned by the teacher. Besides the knowledge points in the textbook, I spent more time reading many books. Although math scores have been unstable, I think as long as children have good reading habits and study habits, no matter how big the difficulties are, they will be overcome in the future. If we let the child live in the "ocean" of doing exercises now, she will have no strength when it needs to break out in the future. Therefore, the future training goal of leaders is to study happily and be positive! Life is extremely beautiful, and it can be better through hard work!
Second, believe that children are good and try to help them. Children can really get better.
When children encounter difficulties, it is the most important link for our parents and children to seek solutions together and tide over the difficulties together. This suddenly reminds me of the top student when he first entered the first grade: because his daughter was lively, uncontrolled and careless at work. At noon, when she eats a small table at school, she always leaves the tableware casually, so that her big brother and big sister on duty stand several times. After that, she didn't want to eat the small school table. After learning this situation, her father and I analyzed what she did wrong and the serious and responsible attitude of the students on duty, so we brought the tableware at home and let her practice how to put it so as not to make the tableware sound. After practicing communicating with her, she realized that this was called civilized dining. After that, she was never punished, and she never said that she didn't want to eat a small table at school. On another occasion, the child was embarrassed to tell the teacher in class because his pants were wet because he had been holding his urine for too long. I will communicate with my children afterwards. When other things happen in class, I must raise my hand to explain the situation to the teacher. I can't be embarrassed Look at the current leaders, they are not as careless as before. Therefore, children can really get better if they trust their children and find ways to help them.
Third, let children develop in an all-round way, develop in a balanced way mentally, intellectually and physically, so that children can be proud and proud in the future.
Every child has different characteristics. Only by making children develop in a balanced way can they adapt to the development of society. To sum up the characteristics of daughters: 1, the habit of loving reading has been developed. My daughter has formed the habit of reading every day now. She has read more than 30 books in this winter vacation. Sometimes she spends all her time reading except eating and sleeping. Even when I went to the children's Spring Festival Gala, the book never left her sight. Now we don't "fight" for not reading, but "fight" for reading too much and being afraid of hurting our eyes. Now I am also struggling, but I know that children's enthusiasm for reading needs our care. Therefore, the control ability is in the hands of parents, and it is necessary to communicate with children to grow up. 2. Participate in extra-long classes to enhance self-confidence. My daughter likes painting since she was a child, so I enrolled her in a painting class when she was less than three years old. Until now, her interest in painting is still very strong, and every time she writes a diary, she must be accompanied by illustrations. Moreover, by participating in various painting competitions, my self-confidence has gradually increased and I am very passionate about doing things. When I was four and a half years old, I signed her up for a dance class. Now, I participate in the performances of Zibo Children's Spring Festival Gala and other types of dance competitions every year. Although it is a group dance, it is a good exercise opportunity for children. At the age of five, with her consent, she made friends with the piano again. After passing the annual examination, she has now obtained a seven-level certificate. Last year, at her constant request, she signed up for a vocal class. This year, she participated in the "Star Torch" vocal competition. Through the preliminary and semi-finals, she entered the final and won the first prize in the province. This is the result of continuous efforts and positive progress. Some people say that I have enrolled her in too many extra-long classes. I think as long as the child likes something and she has the ability and time to finish it, there should be no restrictions, but she must not force the child to work extra long classes. Interest is the best teacher. "Only by allowing children to develop in an all-round way and develop mentally, intellectually and physically in a balanced way can they be proud and proud in the future." I keep this sentence firmly in mind.
In short, after reading this book, I understand the importance of parents leading their children with heart. I hope our children will always smile with the cooperation of parents and teachers and be successors in the new century!