What should children do if they are tired of the world? Children's personality and thoughts are greatly influenced by their families. Children's stress may come from parents' high demands. Educating children should also follow the laws of children's physical and mental development and learn to find children's abnormalities. Let me share what children should do if they are world-weary and negative.

What should children do if they are pessimistic about the world? 1 1. Parents should be optimistic and teach their children to look at the problem from another angle.

To cultivate children's optimistic quality, parents must first have an optimistic way of thinking. If parents complain in front of their children as soon as they encounter something, then children will inevitably face setbacks and difficulties in this negative way.

Therefore, parents should be optimistic, face all kinds of problems in life and work with an optimistic attitude and actively seek solutions. Slowly, children will become optimistic under the positive influence of their parents.

Although we live in the same world, what we see is by no means the same world, which is actually because different people look at problems from different angles.

Everything has its good side and bad side. When a child encounters adversity, if he is used to looking at problems with conventional thinking, he will always think of the bad side, and then the child will become more and more pessimistic. If children know how to look at problems from another angle and always think of the good, then even bad things will become easy to solve and make them happy.

For example, when a child comes home, he says to his parents, "Today is really unlucky. I lost a pen. " Parents can tell their children like this: "Fortunately, you are lucky not to lose your schoolbag. Of course, people who find your pen will be very happy. If he happens to be short of a pen, then you have solved the problem for others. " In this way, children will not be affected by unsatisfactory things, but can solve problems optimistically and positively.

In addition, teach children to look at the problem from another angle. Parents teach their children to look at problems from another angle, not to make them blindly optimistic, but to treat difficulties and setbacks scientifically and let them find new breakthroughs. Parents should trust their children. As long as he has a good attitude, he will find a way to overcome difficulties and setbacks.

2. Improve children's sense of humor and adjust negative emotions.

In life and study, children will inevitably encounter all kinds of problems, and their emotions will be good and bad. However, as children grow up, it is impossible for parents to stay with their children all the time and eliminate their negative emotions. This requires parents to teach their children some ways to adjust their emotions.

For example, by listening to music, running, chatting with friends, or doing something you like, let your child vent his negative emotions, thus making him optimistic.

Humor can dilute people's negative emotions, eliminate depression and pain, relieve tension, and bring joy and hope to themselves and others.

Mark Twain said, "A successful person handles setbacks with a sense of humor." Therefore, cultivating children's sense of humor can make children laugh at all the difficulties in life.

Humor is a kind of life attitude and wisdom, and its psychological basis is optimistic and positive attitude.

Craig Wilson, a famous humorist, said: "When I was growing up, humor was the colorful sunshine in my life. Without it, there would be no colorful childhood and no family full of laughter and happiness. "

A person with a sense of humor must be a quick-thinking person. Therefore, if parents want to cultivate their children's sense of humor, the key is to break away from convention and not let inertial thinking bind their children's minds. For example, you should play "brain teaser" games with your children more often.

Parents' cultivation of children's sense of humor from an early age plays an important role in cultivating children's optimistic personality and is also one of the effective ways to improve children's psychological endurance.

Children are born with humorous cells (for example, when parents deliberately "fall" their children in their arms when they are 6 months old, some children will automatically realize that adults are joking with themselves and will smile on their faces), so parents should take care of them and cultivate them.

3. Create a happy family atmosphere

Optimistic personality benefits from the environment created by parents. Studies have shown that children can feel the surrounding emotions and atmosphere before babbling, even if they can't express it in words at that time.

If parents have bad feelings and often quarrel, then children will not be happy, and naturally they will not cultivate optimistic children. Therefore, in order to cultivate an optimistic and psychologically tolerant child, parents should strive to create a happy family atmosphere for their children.

Childhood is a period full of happiness and happiness. Parents have the responsibility and obligation to educate their children about happiness and constantly improve their ability to feel happiness.

Because children with this ability can always find the bright side of life and face all kinds of difficulties and setbacks positively and optimistically. This requires parents to let their children feel happy and happy constantly in their lives and make happiness a habit of their children.

In daily life, parents can play ball games, ride bicycles and swim with their children. You can also play games with your children, such as dressing up as a horse, chasing people, playing hide-and-seek and so on. This can not only enhance the affection between parents and children, exercise children's various abilities, but also make children have fun. Maintaining a vibrant life can moderately relieve children's stress and emotions, so that children can find fun and a sense of accomplishment from sports.

Happiness is a pleasant emotional experience. With the ability to feel happy, children can see warmth and hope and face difficulties optimistically, which will make their hearts stronger and stronger.

Parents should criticize their children's mistakes in an appropriate way.

Martin seligman pointed out: "Whether parents criticize their children correctly will directly affect whether their children are optimistic or pessimistic in the future." So parents should criticize their children in an appropriate way. They should specifically point out where and why children make mistakes and let them know that their mistakes can be corrected, instead of exaggerating their mistakes into permanent problems.

What if the child is pessimistic? 2 1. Break the ice of children's thinking.

Children who are pessimistic and world-weary have many fallacies in their thoughts. It is difficult to find out the reasons for their formation, and sometimes it may break their mindset. If parents tell their children carefully, they will find that children are sometimes full of loopholes, which gives educators an opportunity. We believe that in many tips from parents, children will think about many problems, so as to avoid strengthening their withdrawn and world-weary behavior with many wrong ideas.

Even pessimistic children, we can still see their impulse to grow up. Sometimes, they will suddenly complain, or want to discuss problems with you, act impulsively, sneer at themselves, and ask doubtfully, "Am I doing this right?" The child is uneasy. They want to be understood and have the impulse to communicate. If parents don't want to communicate with them, they will become more withdrawn.

Please pay attention to parents, no one wants to say stupid things, and neither do children. It is because they don't know that everyone will say it, and it is to discuss correction. Parents don't let their children talk, don't guide them, but criticize them, which hinders their growth.

2. Wear "colored glasses" for children

Many children are pessimistic and disappointed. When they see their parents' sad faces after divorce, layoffs and the stock market decline, they know that their future life will be the same as theirs, and negative world-weariness will form under their parents' eyes. Some parents are whiners, complaining in front of their children about how dark the boss is, how cruel his colleagues are, how boring life is, how dark life is ... Children's hearts are beautiful, which makes parents take out a lot of rubbish.

We need to turn children into colored eyes. What are colored glasses? It is to let children see the bright side of life, starting from the family and starting from the parents. Parents should have a good attitude, not brag in the face of good days, not discouraged in the face of hard life, and maintain an optimistic attitude towards life. Pay more attention to people's good deeds with children, watch more news that one side is in trouble and support from all directions, and take children to see beautiful rivers and mountains, long history, ancient civilization and so on, so that children can feel that life is colorful.

What should children do if they are pessimistic and negative? 1. Change the way they criticize children.

To teach children to be optimistic, parents must first be optimists. If you are a pessimist, your children will learn the pessimistic style directly from you. The "tool to test whether children are pessimistic" also applies to adults.

How you explain the bad things that happened to you, and how you explain the bad things on behalf of your children directly affect whether your children are pessimistic or not. At any time, if you explain for your child, remember to help him explain that the cause of the matter is temporary, not permanent.

Children listen to how adults criticize, but also learn the way of criticism. If you criticize your child for being lazy today, instead of criticizing him for not working hard enough, then the child will not only believe that he is lazy, but also believe that his failure comes from permanent and unchangeable factors.

Whenever a child is found to be at fault, if the facts permit, we should focus on specific and temporary personal reasons and avoid blaming the child's personality or ability.

Second, encourage children to persist and succeed.

Martin seligman, an American psychologist, wrote in his book True Happiness: "You will feel happy when you use your abilities and advantages to cope with a challenge and successfully complete it." This is especially true for the cultivation of children's optimism.

Children's real optimism comes from an indestructible experience of success and a sense of accomplishment. This sense of accomplishment is not based on "cheap success", it is a sense of conquest, which requires us to let the child face real difficulties and challenges, encourage him to persist and finally succeed.

However, an indispensable step for a child to gain a sense of conquest is to let him experience failure and depression and keep trying until he succeeds. Because helping children escape the sense of failure will make it more difficult for them to gain a sense of conquest.

Children need to fail and feel sad, uneasy and angry. Parents who always want their children to succeed not only deprive their children of the opportunity to experience failure and negative emotions, but ultimately even those "successes" themselves can no longer inspire their children.

Many parents are afraid of their children's failure, or take them away from the scene quickly when they fail, instead of learning to calm their children's emotions and encourage them to persist until they succeed.

In the process of paying attention to and teaching children to be confident and optimistic, many of our concepts and practices are worthy of reflection and adjustment. I hope that when we start using a new method, we can tell ourselves silently that the purpose of doing so is to teach my children to learn to be optimistic.

A child's determination to die must be unbearable pressure in his heart. Their hearts are very painful. When they can't be understood and don't know how to vent, this kind of pain can only accumulate in their hearts, leading to extreme measures.