Different leaves have different flowers, different keys have different locks, and different children are also suitable for different educational methods. Just as there are no two identical leaves in the world, people in the world are different, and an educational method cannot be suitable for everyone. Those educational methods that frequently appear in public opinion are not necessarily the best. The so-called education method is not the best, only the most suitable.
Xiao Baiyou, the "Wolf Dad", managed the children militarily, making them obedient and sensible from childhood and achieving excellent results. Three of them have been admitted to Peking University, but this result has not been recognized by everyone, and many people who advocate appreciation education are firmly opposed. Similarly, Chinese tiger mothers are strict with their daughters. Her Chinese-style strict education caused an uproar in the United States on the other side of the ocean, and a big discussion about the educational methods between China and the United States began in the United States. In sharp contrast, "sheep dads" treat their children gently, respect each other and give them more encouragement. Their children have also achieved excellent results. These two completely different educational methods have produced excellent students, which shows that neither is the best, but it is successful for children and suitable for their own children respectively.
Every education method has advantages and disadvantages, and the performance of advantages and disadvantages is different for different children. Perhaps in some children, the education of "wolf dad" will suppress their personality, while some children will be more self-disciplined; "Sheep Dad" education may make some children's character too weak, but it may also make some children appreciated and more confident. More than two thousand years ago, Confucius, the originator of education, put forward the idea of "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" and giving different education to different students. The educational methods of "Wolf Dad" and "Sheep Dad" cannot be used as templates to follow. Parents should think rationally, choose the most suitable education method for their children, and carefully take the first step of their children's education, which is most conducive to the cultivation of talents.
Education is a timeless topic, and its purpose is to make everyone a capitalized "person", let its shining point shine, and let its thinking flower bloom. We are in an impetuous society, but we hope that parents should keep a clear head when choosing education methods, and understand that education methods are "not the best, only the most suitable", so that real talents can shine under the most suitable education methods!