Naturally, she is also "not sensible". At this time, everyone should educate her rationally. Rationality means that when we criticize him, we must be clear about why we blame her, and when we praise her, we must be clear about why we praise her. In the process of cultural education, we should not include too much mentality. If we have emotions, we can't control ourselves, and we can't educate girls well.
Second, we must master girls. Girls in this period gradually expect something from everyone. They expect our attention and recognition, which makes her gradually become more and more confident. Many times, she also cares about everyone's expectations of her, wants to fulfill everyone's rules, and wants to get everyone's praise for her. In order to get people's attention better, she will deliberately tell you some interesting things about colleges and universities, expecting you to give her a positive answer. If we expect too much of her, so that no matter how hard she tries, she can't meet everyone's expectations, the girl will become dejected and despondent and even stop trying. She must have appropriate expectations from people, give her confidence and courage, inspire her to move forward step by step, and apply her with love, so that she can develop strongly. Gradually shape the independence of girls? When a girl is 7 years old, she needs to attach great importance to shaping her independence, which is easily overlooked by many mothers. People always think that girls are too young to prevent things independently. However, girls' independence is not something they will have when they grow up. It must be shaped from an early age.
We can try to get her to do something by herself. For example, encourage her to wash her own sheets, organize her own things and arrange her own time. Naturally, it may not be easy for her to do well gradually, even without a clue. We can guide her in time. For things that are not easy for her to do at all, everyone can learn from the beginning, but the purpose is to let her learn well and do it herself later. This will help to cultivate her independence. Naturally, before the girl is 7 years old, everyone needs to let her try to do something meaningful and exercise her independence. ? Follow the natural law of female independence? We should follow the natural law of girls' independence. Maybe everyone's girls are not so eager for independence. At this time, everyone should gradually guide her correctly, let go of her hand bit by bit, encourage her to do something independently, but not force her to be independent. If a girl is not used to doing something independently, we can accompany her to do it first, sometimes let her be "independent" once, and then praise her more. Slowly, girls will be good at "independence". If everyone forces her to be independent, she will be reluctant and even more and more worried about doing things independently, and the conclusion will only outweigh the benefits.
Third, accept the changes of girls. When girls change gradually, some parents find it difficult to integrate. Why did she used to be smart, but now she likes to resist? Why does she always doubt whether everyone's family education method is appropriate now, and she still needs to "tell the truth" with everyone for no reason?
We should understand that a girl will grow up and have her own opinion sooner or later. The transformation of a girl is the normal state of her growth stage, and it is considered abnormal without transformation. Therefore, accept the change of girls.