Children will not lose their temper for no reason. There must be a reason behind their bad temper. This paper will provide parents with ways to educate grumpy children from six aspects: guiding children to explain the reasons for grumpy, cultivating the habit of independent thinking, expressing feelings before reasoning, letting children make their own decisions, controlling their emotions and stabilizing their emotions.

Guide the child to tell the reason.

First of all, we should guide children to tell the reasons for their temper, not to scold them.

Cultivate independent thinking

On weekdays, we should pay attention to cultivating children's self-confidence and courage, so that children can face pressure and setbacks alone. Let children form the good habit of independent thinking.

Lyric first, then reasonable.

A trick to master is to "show your face first, then make sense." If you have to choose between two, you can even just talk without doing it, which is unreasonable.

Let the children make their own decisions.

Parents should not do everything for their children in life, but try to let their children make their own decisions and do things themselves. Let the child have a certain sense of decision-making and control, and he will be less confrontational and angry.

Control your emotions.

Parents are children's first teachers, so it is very important to teach children how to control their emotions. Creating a harmonious and comfortable environment for children's growth by controlling their emotions will help children manage their emotions reasonably and make them calm.

Stabilize children's emotions.

Parents should stabilize their children's emotions mainly through daily communication and be gentle and firm. Parents should be gentle in their daily words and deeds, but firm in their attitude towards the bottom line.