Although frustration education is very important, children need to use it carefully before the age of 6, because before the age of 6, children form self-confidence and a basic personality of self-confidence and independence. At this time, if you give him too much frustration education, he will become sensitive, fragile and inferior, so that what they experience when they grow up will become its shadow-like existence.

To educate children before the age of 6, he is no worse than others, and he can do what others can do. There is no need to give him too much frustration, that is, if others can give it, the children have to give it to their own families. If she is 6 or 8 years old, giving her too much frustration education before he gradually realizes the independence of the individual will become the shadow of his childhood, so that when he grows up, he will feel particularly painful every time he recalls that period because of him. This is a problem of family education.

Gradually introduce some frustration education after the age of 6 or 8, but it is not the type of fatal blow, that is, you should let him know that there is someone outside, and one day, he remembers it very deeply when he was a child. He was particularly confident in his first and second grades. After the exam, I always thought I could get 1, but after the exam, my grades came out, which was not so ideal. I couldn't get 1, but it didn't count. Almost the top 20%, but then I gradually realized that I was neither the best nor the worst, so I just had to do what I could have done.

Exercise your child's independence and ability to handle things by yourself, but you shouldn't give these things to her too early, because if the child can do everything by himself, his independence will get better and better, but his sense of security will get lower and lower, because he thinks everything is done by himself. What should parents do? This is a common problem. Every child will have such a question. He handles everything by himself, washing clothes and cooking.

Family is a place to give children a sense of security. It's okay for you to exercise his independence, but don't give him too much frustration and don't let him be too independent, because a child who is too independent will not be restricted by his parents, because he can do everything by himself, and he will feel that he can live alone. If his parents discipline him too much, he will feel free. If he depends on his parents for everything, he will have to consider their words. But he doesn't depend on his parents for anything, so he will wonder why his parents should take care of me, because I handle everything myself, so you should be careful to educate with setbacks, not always like this.